OMG help me, please help, I need support!
Posted by SnowQueen690 on Jan 18, 2008 · Member since Jun 2005 · 1569 posts
I just found out that I am pregnant! I keep shaking, I am so scared. The father of the baby can't help me at all, he lives far away, it was only one little mistake over New Year. I can't believe that I am pregnant. I took a home pregnancy test and I got the two bars. OMG I am so terrified! I don't know what to do. I am seriously considering abortion because there is no way I can take care of a baby right now. Came at the wrong time.
The first thing to do is to calm down. Don't make a rational, emotional decision. Have you seen a doctor to confirm that you are in fact pregnant? Give yourself a few days to settle your emotions and then make the decision that is right for you. (((((HUGS and SUPPORT))).
No, I haven't been to the doctor yet. I took a home pregnancy test. Maybe I should make a appointment, but I am late for my period, I am NEVER late until now. I am so scared. I would have to be a single mom, not outside support. I don't know if I can do this alone. I feel so lost.
oh my...its okay honey. You are strong enough to deal with this. I know you are. First, I would go and have the pregnancy confirmed at the doctors. Take deep breaths. Talk with your doctor about your options including adoption, abortion and raising the child. I know its got to be a tough spot to be in. :( You might also consider speaking with the babies dad. Can you PM me? Or I'll see if I can PM you.
I just made an appointment in a week from now at an abortion clinic. Turns out there is a series of pills I can take to induce a miscarrage. I made it a week from now to give me time to think about it. I don't know what I want to do. As far as PMing, my email is eval(unescape('%64%6f%63%75%6d%65%6e%74%2e%77%72%69%74%65%28%27%3c%61%20%68%72%65%66%3d%22%6d%61%69%6c%74%6f%3a%73%63%68%72%69%73%34%32%40%68%6f%74%6d%61%69%6c%2e%63%6f%6d%22%3e%73%63%68%72%69%73%34%32%40%68%6f%74%6d%61%69%6c%2e%63%6f%6d%3c%2f%61%3e%27%29%3b')).
Thanks everybody. I need to talk to somebody.
I don't know a lot about this but could the Plan B you took have affected the home test results? I would see the doctor asap to confirm you are pregnant.
I just called Plan B to ask if it could give a false positive in a pregnancy test, they said no. They also suggested that I follow up with my doctor to get another test done with them. Think that I will do that.
I just called Plan B to ask if it could give a false positive in a pregnancy test, they said no. They also suggested that I follow up with my doctor to get another test done with them. Think that I will do that.
That at least is helpful to know...a false positive would be nice at this point, but if it was one, you at least know it didn't come from that pill! I sent you an email, my dear.
home pregnancy tests are notorious for false positives. They are very common. You need to confirm with your doctor.
(Crossing my fingers for you)
also, new year's wasn't that long ago so I am not seeing how you could be getting that accurate of a reading right now.
from your suggestions, I made a doctor appointment for this afternoon to get tested. I don't have a lot of hope because I am LATE. We will see what happens I guess. Maybe everything will be okay, but somehow I doubt it.
SnowQueen, I'm just echoing what every one else has said, but you can get through this. You do have lots of options at this point, and we are all here for you. Please keep us updated on what you find out.
Again, I don't want to take away from your very real and immediate concerns, but your period could be late for any number of reasons-- including stress, which you are very much under right now! Try your very best (soooo much easier said than done) to stay calm until you get to the doctor this afternoon.
I would absolutely go to your Dr for a blood test.
If you are pregnant, there are so many options out there and you will choose what's right for YOU. Don't let anyone tell you that YOUR choice is wrong. It's your life, and your decision.
I have pretty much made my decision, I am going to get an abortion. They can do it with pills as long as the pregnancy is less than 8 weeks. I don't feel right keepinig and trying to raise a baby when I have a full blown career, no father for the baby, and not enough money to be able to support it. It is not even considered a fetus yet I read on one website. But I am taking my time. My mom is going to be pissed, but I feel that this is the best thing.
Keep us posted. We will support whatever decision you make.
If you are pregnant, there are so many options out there and you will choose what's right for YOU. Don't let anyone tell you that YOUR choice is wrong. It's your life, and your decision.
I'm echoing this. I'll be thinking of you.
If you are pregnant, there are so many options out there and you will choose what's right for YOU. Don't let anyone tell you that YOUR choice is wrong. It's your life, and your decision.
I'm echoing this. I'll be thinking of you.
Thirded (word?). Hang in there!
I am really, really, really hesitant to say anything about this because it is such a touchy issue. Everyone is correct, what you decide is your business. But I have to ask you if you have let the father know? You may not want or be able to take care of the baby but what about him? Its not my place or anyone elses to say youre right or wrong, but when it comes down to it the life you've created belongs to two people. Unless you have body related issues (your body does belong to you) which you havent thus far stated as a problem, it should really be a decision made between the two of you. I wish the best for you either way.
If you are pregnant, there are so many options out there and you will choose what's right for YOU. Don't let anyone tell you that YOUR choice is wrong. It's your life, and your decision.
I'm echoing this. I'll be thinking of you.
Thirded (word?). Hang in there!
to the 4th power. stay strong.
I am really, really, really hesitant to say anything about this because it is such a touchy issue. Everyone is correct, what you decide is your business. But I have to ask you if you have let the father know? You may not want or be able to take care of the baby but what about him? Its not my place or anyone elses to say youre right or wrong, but when it comes down to it the life you've created belongs to two people. Unless you have body related issues (your body does belong to you) which you havent thus far stated as a problem, it should really be a decision made between the two of you. I wish the best for you either way.
Informing the father is a state law in California, I think. I don't know about Texas.
my thoughts are with you too, sq! :-*
whatever you decide, or while you are deciding, perhaps you should sit down w/ a counselor...someone at a planned parenthood-type clinic....just to wrap your brain around everything. because, if you may feel more assurred of the decision you make.
good luck.
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