lotus got hit on...
Posted by lotus42 on Apr 26, 2008 · Member since Mar 2007 · 3081 posts
and it was not pretty. i mean seriously, can't you tell when someone isn't interested? i mean, it was just me and another female friend, so we weren't completely "surprised" to get hit on, but when we didn't show an interest, we thought it would stop. anyway, so then, he brings his friends over to hit on us too. seriously, guys? when a girl doesn't show an interest, don't you just move on? i mean, really?
I know this is completely un-veg-related, but i had to post it.
Ha, this happened to me once at a country dancing bar in Houston. It was New Year's Eve. I am not much of a bar-goer, and I was the DD, so I was basically purse-watching and roommate-protecting and Sweaty Guy in Plastic Leprechaun hat would not leave me alone!
I had to hide in the bathroom to escape.
I think alcohol may have something to do with it....
Sarcasm is no defense against the truly drunk, either. They just don't get it. One of my students (age 25) told me that she found herself in this same situation not long ago. In desperation, the BGF she was with put her arm around my student and leaned over and kissed her on the neck, saying, "Let's go home, honeybunch!" They managed to leave unmolested! ;D
Yeah...I get hit on by the grossest guys--I had a drunk homeless guy hitting on me at 10 am on the bus the other day...he was all like Hey girl..you're hot!" *eek!* He kept touching my shoulder--I wanted to cut it off! Seriously--I never get hit on by any quality guys, I think I have "trash" tattooed on my forehead :(
You know, I used to get hit on all the time, in many different situations...but after I got married, it's pretty much ceased (for the most part)!
I dunno if it's a vibe..the ring.....but it's a pretty neat phenomenon! :-*
Yeah...I get hit on by the grossest guys--I had a drunk homeless guy hitting on me at 10 am on the bus the other day...he was all like Hey girl..you're hot!" *eek!* He kept touching my shoulder--I wanted to cut it off! Seriously--I never get hit on by any quality guys, I think I have "trash" tattooed on my forehead :(
Awww... cap... that just means you're "approachable." :-D
as far as I know, I've only been hit on twice, and of course I'm pretty sure both guys were drunk. I'm so lucky. the first was after a youth concert event that I organized, and I was cleaning up garbage - he came over and offered me the world! yeah right... and the second was at a mod club - this guy just wouldn't leave me alone. he kept picking me up, literally, and when I told him to get lost, he didn't. eventually I think he got the message- and he turned his attention to some other girl, who actualy wanted to hook up with a random drunk guy.
why don't the nice ones ever express interest? :-\
Cap, don't feel bad I get the creepy guys too :(
I must have 'therapist' written on my forehead because I always get the freaks that feel the need to tell me their life stories.
Hee hee - this is pretty true :)
http://icanhascheezburger.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/funny-pictures-creepy-lolcat-hits-on-you.jpg
I forgot to comment on the original post:
lotus, did he say:
* Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?
* Are you from Tennessee? Because you're the only ten I see!
* Pardon me miss, I seem to have lost my phone number, could I borrow yours?
* Am I dead, Angel? Cause this must be heaven!
* Do you have a map? I just keep on getting lost in your eyes.
* If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put U and I together.
* Was your father an alien? Because there's nothing else like you on Earth!
The very worst line I ever heard was, "You got a burger to go with that shake?"
The one I knew was a piece of cheese (almost wrote chiece of peas) but that has stayed with me was someone I was to be introduced to at a party. He turned to my friend and said accusingly: "Man! You didn't tell me she was beautiful!!"
No, it wasn't worth it.
Wow, I honestly thought most of those scenarios were stereotypes. I've never seen any of the guys I've hung out with act that pathetically - though I wouldn't put it past some of the guys I worked with when I was in construction.
Capture, I'm willing to bet that quality guys assume that you already have a boyfriend, it's just that the nasty ones don't really care.
Jewel5111, your lolcat is cracking me up :>
My best girl friend wrote down these really funny (kinda gross) pick up lines:
*Do you wash your pants in windex?...cause I can see myself in them!
*If your left leg is thanksgiving and your right leg is christmas..can I visit you between holidays?
hahaha
This thread makes me really glad I'm not a female. Although, my sister got hit on by this guy and he wouldn't leave her alone. I thought it was hilarious because she was being a total bitch to him and he wasn't getting the hint. It became a game to see how mean she could be to this guy before he got the clue...
he never did. :-D :-D :-D :-D
I was just talking to my friend on the phone about horrid pick-up lines!!! My three favorite bad lines (I've either experienced, or witnessed first hand)
3) "Can I go home with you as one of your pets?" (after I told him I had to get back to my two cats who were used to 3 hrs of attention a piece)
2) *tap on the shoulder after 'lurking' for a few minutes* while I am on the phone w/ a friend in the grocery store "Thought you'd like to know x-brand Teas are on sale 50% at x-store" still on the phone, I say thanks, he continues to 'hang out' for another five minutes in the same aisle....
1) Sunburned to the point of purple, drunk, 20-30 something comes up to my friend (she was 14, I was 15) asks her for a favor. He turns around showing us a fly tattooed on his shoulder blade. "Can you get this fly off my back?" He stoops down so she can reach it. She winds up, and the slap is echoed throughout the amphitheater :-D
I was just talking to my friend on the phone about horrid pick-up lines!!! My three favorite bad lines (I've either experienced, or witnessed first hand)
3) "Can I go home with you as one of your pets?" (after I told him I had to get back to my two cats who were used to 3 hrs of attention a piece)
2) *tap on the shoulder after 'lurking' for a few minutes* while I am on the phone w/ a friend in the grocery store "Thought you'd like to know x-brand Teas are on sale 50% at x-store" still on the phone, I say thanks, he continues to 'hang out' for another five minutes in the same aisle....
1) Sunburned to the point of purple, drunk, 20-30 something comes up to my friend (she was 14, I was 15) asks her for a favor. He turns around showing us a fly tattooed on his shoulder blade. "Can you get this fly off my back?" He stoops down so she can reach it. She winds up, and the slap is echoed throughout the amphitheater :-D
I love happy comical endings :D
This thread makes me really glad I'm not a female. Although, my sister got hit on by this guy and he wouldn't leave her alone. I thought it was hilarious because she was being a total bitch to him and he wasn't getting the hint. It became a game to see how mean she could be to this guy before he got the clue...
he never did. :-D :-D :-D :-D
Ha, ha, I've been in this situation in the past (I'm too old to get hit on now). I think some guys take it as a challenge when a woman says no or shows no interest. Perhaps it offends their ginormous egos and they just have to keep plugging away, thinking (hoping) she'll cave in.
This thread makes me really glad I'm not a female. Although, my sister got hit on by this guy and he wouldn't leave her alone. I thought it was hilarious because she was being a total bitch to him and he wasn't getting the hint. It became a game to see how mean she could be to this guy before he got the clue...
he never did. :-D :-D :-D :-D
Ha, ha, I've been in this situation in the past (I'm too old to get hit on now). I think some guys take it as a challenge when a woman says no or shows no interest. Perhaps it offends their ginormous egos and they just have to keep plugging away, thinking (hoping) she'll cave in.
This reminds me of a specific situation...(I'm horrible at telling stories)
My husband (we were not dating yet..at the time, just friends) had a friend from high school that we saw at our University one day..so we started chatting with him. He was kind of weird..but very intelligent and kind of funny, so I would mainly just sit there (during off times). So, he obviously started to have a crush on me, and I was then ALWAYS extremely mean to him...really mean..
BUT, he continued on..
We all had mutual friends who were throwing this Halloween party one year, so a few days beforehand I was just casually talking about what I was going as (prom queen), one day at the table while he was there. So..
I go to the party..and as I'm pulling up with a girl friend...I see him..
He came dressed as a prom king, and gave me a corsage!!!!!!! Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....
it was horrid...
I was so afraid that everyone would think that I came with him..or that I "allowed" him to do this..and I blew up at him and ignored him the whole night..
BUT
it was a happy ending b/c that's when my husband and I hook... ...started dating. ; )
::)
This thread makes me really glad I'm not a female. Although, my sister got hit on by this guy and he wouldn't leave her alone. I thought it was hilarious because she was being a total bitch to him and he wasn't getting the hint. It became a game to see how mean she could be to this guy before he got the clue...
he never did. :-D :-D :-D :-D
Oh man. This guy just didn't get it. I seriously don't ever get mean until it gets ridiculous. But, I had to get mean with this guy. Plus, he brought his friends over to sit with us...and left for a while!!! Then they kept asking me if I was gonna go home with their friend! It was ridiculous. We should've left sooner, but it actually became a little comical. They just didn't get it.
See, I start mean.
Which is why I never get hit on. I somehow reek "unapproachable"ness. Something to do with the sarcasm, poker face, and scary scary veganism. Hehehe...
Ha, ha, I've been in this situation in the past (I'm too old to get hit on now).
My dear girl, one is never too old to get hit on, if one is female and breathing! Case in point, my neighbour's dad, twice widowed, in his mid-70's, still prowling for Mrs. Crispin Number 3. Saw him leaving the flat all duded up in his best bib and tucker reeking of aftershave so I says, "Where are you off to, Crispin?" His response: "Hunting!"
Yeesh.