Posted by secondbase on Jan 10, 2008 · Member since Dec 2005 · 5540 posts
just because nothing beats it
Posted by queen bee on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since May 2007 · 352 posts
The only problem with post coital cuddling is sweat.
totally. i am a cuddle-addict, too, but after the nasty, i'm ready for my skin to dry and cool down a bit. slimy (fine, sweaty) cuddling is just not as nice as cozy, comfy, drier cuddling.
one of my kitties is a cuddle whore, to the point that i can't even sit down without her mashing my legs and trying to settle in.
re: cuddling as foreplay - made me think of a little fact: spooning leads to forking.
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Posted by secondbase on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Dec 2005 · 5540 posts
Add another vote to the no-cuddling-after-sex crew. I really just want to sleep. haha
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Posted by AshleyKimball on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Nov 2006 · 536 posts
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
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Posted by dinkfeet on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Aug 2007 · 695 posts
Whoa AK! The boldiness of your question made it very striking!
Anyway, the answer is nah - it messes up my favorite "positions" - sleeping positions that is ::)
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Posted by Fee on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Aug 2007 · 499 posts
Yes, no one should be in bed with me unless they plan on having my head nestled into some crook...sometimes we'll get really corny and even do the handholding-during-sleep thing
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Posted by Cali on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Jan 2002 · 2888 posts
I would answer No, AK. Because I am too 'high maintenance' to be able to sleep in 1 position on or with another person on me. I have three pillows, one for my legs and two under my head. I dont mind a pre sleep laying together but when I am ready to doze off, I need my sleep. And my pillows.
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Posted by dinkfeet on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Aug 2007 · 695 posts
I would answer No, AK. Because I am too 'high maintenance' to be able to sleep in 1 position on or with another person on me. I have three pillows, one for my legs and two under my head. I dont mind a pre sleep laying together but when I am ready to doze off, I need my sleep. And my pillows.
and mah dawg
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Posted by Anonymous on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Dec 1969 · 11789 posts
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
no, because Im a night owl...so Im still awake after sex, so I just hang out till the lady will fall asleep and then Ill run around, cook, hop on the internet, watch a movie, ect
i cant be with light sleepers...it would make sleep overs impossible
Posted by secondbase on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Dec 2005 · 5540 posts
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
I like both positions. It really all depends on who I'm snuggling with
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Posted by Tkitty96 on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since May 2006 · 1789 posts
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
Fuck that. I have a hard time falling asleep. And I'm good at wearing out any sleep partners I've had ;). I HATE lying in bed, trying to go to sleep, and someone has their face right behind my ear, snoring. I dunno... I'm grumpy. I like my space.
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Posted by KissMeKate on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Aug 2007 · 7322 posts
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
I do! I guess I am not that much of a high-maintenance sleeper. Back, side, tummy, one pillow, two pillows, noisy, quiet, I don't really care. I could fall asleep on a concrete floor if I felt like it. Which is probably a sign of sleep deprivation.... :-\
Plus, I'm short fun-sized, so I like to be all nestled in another person. :iloveyou:
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Posted by lotus42 on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Mar 2007 · 3081 posts
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
Fuck that. I have a hard time falling asleep. And I'm good at wearing out any sleep partners I've had ;). I HATE lying in bed, trying to go to sleep, and someone has their face right behind my ear, snoring. I dunno... I'm grumpy. I like my space.
I'm with you Tkitty. I absolutely hate the feeling of someone breathing on my neck while I'm trying to go to sleep.
My ex boyfriend and I rarely fought, but when we did, it was often in bed, trying to go to sleep. For a while, we tried to do the cuddly sleep thing. I guess we thought we were supposed to or something. It always led to crankiness and argument. Things were much better when we realized that when it's time to sleep, it is perfectly fine to just SLEEP.
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Posted by foofie81 on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Jul 2007 · 577 posts
I'm annoying in bed. I know this for a fact. I'm a restless sleeper and talk endlessly. It will take at least a few hours to fall asleep. I'll cuddle for however long a girl wants to, or until she falls asleep, or until my arm falls asleep and gets all tingly...whichever comes first. Every night I try just about every position you can possibly think of to fall asleep in and choose a different one about every night. Not very conducive to a good night's sleep for anyone else in the bed.....
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Posted by Meggs on Jan 11, 2008 · Member since Jun 2007 · 3572 posts
a little fact: spooning leads to forking.
All the more reason to spoon.
I call pre sex cuddling or snuggling "fuggling"
Oooh I like it; I hope you don't mind if I steal it?
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Posted by Anonymous on Jan 12, 2008 · Member since Dec 1969 · 11789 posts
man... i miss this girl now. She & I have always been cuddling, holding hands, flirting and such... But we're not together yet, and I've been after her for like 6 months.
Posted by lime green on Jan 12, 2008 · Member since Apr 2007 · 634 posts
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
Fuck that. I have a hard time falling asleep. And I'm good at wearing out any sleep partners I've had ;). I HATE lying in bed, trying to go to sleep, and someone has their face right behind my ear, snoring. I dunno... I'm grumpy. I like my space.
doooood. i have a really hard time sleeping when i am sharing my bed, but half the time it's because of the lack of snuggles. if it's cold, i need to be touching my bedmate at all points possible, completely adhered. but i find if it's too warm and sweaty i'll be just like tkitty, and shove them off. essentially i only share my bed for warmth purposes
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Posted by mirrya1 on Jan 12, 2008 · Member since Jan 2006 · 2210 posts
I have a hard time sleeping too. I get uncomfortable easily due to the titanium rods in my back and therefore am very restless. That and I produce a lot of body heat when I sleep...I sure as hell don't want someone stuck to me like glue making me hotter.
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Posted by secondbase on Jan 14, 2008 · Member since Dec 2005 · 5540 posts
I got snuggle action last night and then again this morning for a few hours. Fantastic!!!!! Possibly getting some more snuggles tonight :)
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Posted by Di on Jan 14, 2008 · Member since Nov 2006 · 1343 posts
I got snuggle action last night and then again this morning for a few hours. Fantastic!!!!! Possibly getting some more snuggles tonight :)
Snuggling is good. I spent most of Saturday doing so. Thought I couldn't sleep when snuggling but I was wrong.
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Posted by AutemOx on Jan 15, 2008 · Member since Sep 2007 · 184 posts
:-[ I hate all of you and your snug cuddle buddies.
have you guys heard of those 'snuggle parties'? i think i read an article about it somewhere.. i'm going to google it.
::) Someone was just telling me about one that is being held soon... Apparently theres a very long waitlist for males though.
The only problem with post coital cuddling is sweat.
totally. i am a cuddle-addict, too, but after the nasty, i'm ready for my skin to dry and cool down a bit. slimy (fine, sweaty) cuddling is just not as nice as cozy, comfy, drier cuddling.
one of my kitties is a cuddle whore, to the point that i can't even sit down without her mashing my legs and trying to settle in.
re: cuddling as foreplay - made me think of a little fact: spooning leads to forking.
Add another vote to the no-cuddling-after-sex crew. I really just want to sleep. haha
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
Whoa AK! The boldiness of your question made it very striking!
Anyway, the answer is nah - it messes up my favorite "positions" - sleeping positions that is ::)
Yes, no one should be in bed with me unless they plan on having my head nestled into some crook...sometimes we'll get really corny and even do the handholding-during-sleep thing
I would answer No, AK. Because I am too 'high maintenance' to be able to sleep in 1 position on or with another person on me. I have three pillows, one for my legs and two under my head. I dont mind a pre sleep laying together but when I am ready to doze off, I need my sleep. And my pillows.
I would answer No, AK. Because I am too 'high maintenance' to be able to sleep in 1 position on or with another person on me. I have three pillows, one for my legs and two under my head. I dont mind a pre sleep laying together but when I am ready to doze off, I need my sleep. And my pillows.
and mah dawg
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
no, because Im a night owl...so Im still awake after sex, so I just hang out till the lady will fall asleep and then Ill run around, cook, hop on the internet, watch a movie, ect
i cant be with light sleepers...it would make sleep overs impossible
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
I like both positions. It really all depends on who I'm snuggling with
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
Fuck that. I have a hard time falling asleep. And I'm good at wearing out any sleep partners I've had ;). I HATE lying in bed, trying to go to sleep, and someone has their face right behind my ear, snoring. I dunno... I'm grumpy. I like my space.
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
I do! I guess I am not that much of a high-maintenance sleeper. Back, side, tummy, one pillow, two pillows, noisy, quiet, I don't really care. I could fall asleep on a concrete floor if I felt like it. Which is probably a sign of sleep deprivation.... :-\
Plus, I'm short fun-sized, so I like to be all nestled in another person. :iloveyou:
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
Fuck that. I have a hard time falling asleep. And I'm good at wearing out any sleep partners I've had ;). I HATE lying in bed, trying to go to sleep, and someone has their face right behind my ear, snoring. I dunno... I'm grumpy. I like my space.
I'm with you Tkitty. I absolutely hate the feeling of someone breathing on my neck while I'm trying to go to sleep.
My ex boyfriend and I rarely fought, but when we did, it was often in bed, trying to go to sleep. For a while, we tried to do the cuddly sleep thing. I guess we thought we were supposed to or something. It always led to crankiness and argument. Things were much better when we realized that when it's time to sleep, it is perfectly fine to just SLEEP.
I'm annoying in bed. I know this for a fact. I'm a restless sleeper and talk endlessly. It will take at least a few hours to fall asleep. I'll cuddle for however long a girl wants to, or until she falls asleep, or until my arm falls asleep and gets all tingly...whichever comes first. Every night I try just about every position you can possibly think of to fall asleep in and choose a different one about every night. Not very conducive to a good night's sleep for anyone else in the bed.....
a little fact: spooning leads to forking.
All the more reason to spoon.
I call pre sex cuddling or snuggling "fuggling"
Oooh I like it; I hope you don't mind if I steal it?
man... i miss this girl now. She & I have always been cuddling, holding hands, flirting and such... But we're not together yet, and I've been after her for like 6 months.
do you all like to hold/be held by your partner during sleep?
Fuck that. I have a hard time falling asleep. And I'm good at wearing out any sleep partners I've had ;). I HATE lying in bed, trying to go to sleep, and someone has their face right behind my ear, snoring. I dunno... I'm grumpy. I like my space.
doooood. i have a really hard time sleeping when i am sharing my bed, but half the time it's because of the lack of snuggles. if it's cold, i need to be touching my bedmate at all points possible, completely adhered. but i find if it's too warm and sweaty i'll be just like tkitty, and shove them off.
essentially i only share my bed for warmth purposes
I have a hard time sleeping too. I get uncomfortable easily due to the titanium rods in my back and therefore am very restless. That and I produce a lot of body heat when I sleep...I sure as hell don't want someone stuck to me like glue making me hotter.
I got snuggle action last night and then again this morning for a few hours. Fantastic!!!!! Possibly getting some more snuggles tonight :)
I got snuggle action last night and then again this morning for a few hours. Fantastic!!!!! Possibly getting some more snuggles tonight :)
Snuggling is good. I spent most of Saturday doing so. Thought I couldn't sleep when snuggling but I was wrong.
:-[ I hate all of you and your snug cuddle buddies.
have you guys heard of those 'snuggle parties'? i think i read an article about it somewhere.. i'm going to google it.
::) Someone was just telling me about one that is being held soon... Apparently theres a very long waitlist for males though.
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