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I would say that my family is basically 'dietary vegan' but not 'full vegan' because of belongings such as some clothing (some sweaters, shoes, bags,  belts,  etc), seats in car, leather furniture, etc.... A while back, when I first transitioned from veg to vegan I sold a couple leather/suede jackets that I had owned prior to veg*n  because there was no way I would feel ok wearing them and I just didn't want to own them anymore... Ideally I would like to be full vegan, but it would mean overhauling a lot of things (changing cars, replacing clothes, etc) and that would be difficult and costly and I guess that's not realistic for my family right now. I'm wondering how easy or fast it was to transition all the way; the journey to full veganism. Am I just thinking it's this 'big thing' when it's not? There are certain things that I think would be tough (replacing dh's belts, shoes, etc..... I don't think he would be cool with that). I think I just need to find peace (instead of guilt) with being dietary vegan....  Does anyone else struggle with this issue? I would love to one day be completely vegan and have the peace of mind of knowing that I live a completely cruelty-free lifestyle....  :) Please share your story/journey because this is always on my mind, and I am so inspired to break free of these belongings and to be able to call myself 'vegan' for real!

I do strive to not use animal products in virutally all other areas, maybe one day I'll replace my couch (which was purchased long before veg days)... but no, right now I don't feel guilty about it...

... What if I DID get rid of my furniture? Would be be allowed in the vegan club then? But I still wouldn't have the guilt factor...

... the really bad thing is that if i was in an airplane accident (think... Alive) and had to eat human meat to stay alive... I would. I know, I'm crazy...

... I don't have pets, and still tend not to read posts here about pets and pet food. I don't want pets. Does that make me less vegan? Does not rescuing animals make YOU less vegan? (Maybe you do, I don't know.)

I actually wanted to quote your first post, but couldn't figure out how to insert a quote from a previous page.  You've stated several times that you're not vegan for animal cruelty reasons.  I've always been a bit curious about that, because it sounds like you are aware of cruelty issues.  I'm vegan for multiple reasons, as I assume others are and it's curious to me that animals don't show up anywhere on your list, even if at the very bottom.

For someone to say they know animals are being tortured and they don't care is a bit sociopathic, which is totally not you and the reason I'm confused.  I don't understand what you mean when you say you're aware of animal cruelty, but it doesn't affect your decision-making process.  BTW - some vegans would consider you more vegan for not having a pet.

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Humboldt_honey,
I know I've said that "I'm not vegan for animal cruelty reasons" the fact is that it DOES make my list but yes, it IS toward the bottom...
if animal cruelty were the ONLY reason for veganism, (i.e. if milk and meat were healthy for you and GOOD for you) I am not sure if I'd be vegan or not... it hard to wrap my mind around at this point.
I would never support factory farming but there are other aspects of factory farming besides just cruelty... like cleanliness and that americans are lied to by the goverment about standards and practices.... ALL bad.

Honestly, it's probably a thing I'd only say on vegweb becuz I think newbies here are often are here for animals reason and I DO like to remind people that there are many, many other reasons to be vegan and all are just as vaild.
In fact, I think animal creulty is often used by the public/media to make vegans look like crazies, if the health aspects were promoted more often to mass america (which is happening more and more) maybe we'd have more converts.... ?    which again, is good for everyone.
If a non-veg person asked me about animal cruelty I'd offer resources and help educate them. I just don't like to be a PETA mouthpiece. I use PETA as a resource but I'm really not a fan of much of their work.
Currently, I do SUPPORT animal testing (as well as more human testing!) for drugs and medicines (but not for cosmetics and such) and maybe I should look into that more as I haven't explored it in depth.

I guess I don't have a top to bottom list as to why I'm vegan there is just a scrolling sign in my head and some items have little *'s or !'s by them and cruelty makes the scrolling list but doesn't have a * or !

It's funny you mentioned that part about no pets making me more vegan because I have often thought about it in that way. I repect pet owners/ lovers and this is a totally different discussion with many facets (probably with a lot about domesticated animals and responsibility) but to me it's just not kind to 'keep' an animal.

and BTW I am totally a sociopath. :D  I'm really a pork eating mcdonald's exec here to win you veggers over and convert you all eventually.... I send Meaty McVibes to you through your computer monitors ;)

wow i totally rambled this whole post out and I'm not editing it whatsoever... and I do appologize for that.  :-\

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I just don't like to be a PETA mouthpiece. I use PETA as a resource but I'm really not a fan of much of their work.

I was going to say something about how I don't really like PETA's methods much either...but I don't want to digress or anything here...so I'll keep quiet...(oops, did I just write that out loud?!)

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today every thread on vegweb seems to be digressing! lol

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today every thread on vegweb seems to be digressing! lol

Yeah, and I probably started it all. I'm an instigator.  ;D

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It is impossible to be a 100% "pure" vegan if you want to define it as zero tolerance for animal products. I would have to live naked, in a hut out in the woods, with no electricity,  no pets, nothing that would even harm an insect. That is a line I'm not crossing. As it has been stated here before, we all do what we believe is right for us personally. Some of us will move further down a non-animal existence, and some will be happy to spend their lives where they are right now. Others here may go back to consuming and using animal products. At the end of the day, all of us combined, being either vegan, or a veggie, or whatever you are comfortable calling yourself, will save thousands and thousands of lives each and every year by the personal choice we have made for ourselves. That I can live with.

-dave

Funny, Dave, but every once in a while, you tempt me to say "Amen, brother!"  ;)

Sadly the concrete we drive on is often made with animal products. The film at the movie theater (tho digital technology is helping that, I think). I suspect the glue in the boxed food we buy . . . etc.

I try to keep on a steady course of improvement. And, sometimes I buy a (non-food) product that I know is not perfectly vegan because to buy the vegan one is so costly that I feel like my self indulgence is starving someone on the other side of the world.

The goal is to make the world a better place for all God's creatures - human and non-human, including ourselves, by improving our own health.

We don't all make the same choices or use the same method, but we all have the same goal.

Encouraging each other is the best option : )

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I'm really a pork eating mcdonald's exec here to win you veggers over and convert you all eventually.... I send Meaty McVibes to you through your computer monitors ;)

;D ;D ;D  Reminds me of my favorite quote from Weird Science:  "How 'bout a nice greasy pork sandwich served in a dirty ashtray?"

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and BTW I am totally a sociopath. :D  I'm really a pork eating mcdonald's exec here to win you veggers over and convert you all eventually.... I send Meaty McVibes to you through your computer monitors ;)

And I'm really not a musician...I'm the acting president of the National Cattlemen's Beef Association!

http://www.beef.org/

I'm just here to keep a check on you crazy vegans or vegetarians..whatever you call yourselves!  :D
(it's important for us to keep the number of you vegan tree huggers to a bare minimum).

good day!

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and BTW I am totally a sociopath. :D  I'm really a pork eating mcdonald's exec here to win you veggers over and convert you all eventually.... I send Meaty McVibes to you through your computer monitors ;)

And I'm really not a musician...I'm the acting president of the National Cattlemen's Beef Association!

http://www.beef.org/

I'm just here to keep a check on you crazy vegans or vegetarians..whatever you call yourselves!  :D
(it's important for us to keep the number of you vegan tree huggers to a bare minimum).

good day!

;D  That's okay.  We'll convert jennifer (or whoever she really is) and McD's will start serving bean burgers on whole wheat buns while reading a soy ink message from Dave (or whoever he really is) about how the NCBA is re-introducing cattle to the wild.  Muwahahaha!!!!

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To me, it is much more "vegan" to continue to use any animal products that you have than to throw them out all at once and go buy all vegan products. I think it can be very easy to forget that just because your cereal/shoes/sofa/shampoo don't have animal products in them, it doesn't mean that animals weren't harmed in the making of them. Manufacturing new products can do major damage to the habitats of all kinds of animals--not to mention the environment in general. I would say that to be truly vegan, one has to think about the environment (as well as avoiding animal products) in every choice that they make.

Which actually harms more animals:
an organic naturally scented beeswax candle made locally and sold at a farmer's market
or
a petroleum based heavily chemically scented candle made in China and shipped to Wal-Mart?

That's an extreme example, of course. I know that those aren't the only options in the world, but it saddens me to see that some vegans (I'm not talking about vegwebbers, just vegans that I've known personally) don't look at the big picture when making choices like the one above.

I couldn't agree with this more! you could say i'm green first, my main motivation for going vegan is environmental factors so i am not going to sacrifice my better judgment to have something just because it is vegan if it has unrecyclable packaging, petroleum based fibers, chemicals, or is something i can get secondhand, etc... Those things aren't good for the earth and therefore aren't good for it's inhabitants.

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I know I haven't been on the forum in a few days, but I just feel like clearing a couple things up. First, I never said vegans should just throw out old non-vegan items. I do think its wasteful, and disrespectful of the animal. But even in using up the old leather couch, I'd still think about it every time I sat down. I have a leather jacket that pretty much makes me think of my first 2 years of high school for various reasons, I'm really attached to it, but I cant bring myself to wear it anymore OR throw it out. So when winter comes around I lend it to my brother and/or boyfriend, who either cant afford a leather jacket or try to no longer buy leather, but want one anyway.

I never said that "dietary vegans" are substandard to vegans. I do appreciate every person who cuts down on animal products just a little bit. I just dont want to be sitting on this forum 10 years down the road having the "vegetarians eat fish" conversation about vegans, if you know what I mean. Its not a club, its not a special society that I want to keep people out of. I may have some shared beliefs with a religious friend, and while we may both be better for our beliefs, one of us actually practices the religion while the other does not. I just dont want the word "vegan" to be ripped apart like the word vegetarian has in recent years. As if life isn't difficult as it is :P I'd rather have to explain what a vegan is to someone than listen to them try to tell me what a vegan really is (and that we eat fish/eggs/whatever).  ::)

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i must say, and be perfectly honest, that i am no longer vegan. i do eat all vegan food in my house and when i can afford it, use vegan/earth friendly cleaners. i don't own leather (save for a pair of hand-me-down black docs).

when i was "fully" vegan, i became pretty much mentally ill. i was CONSTANTLY worried and feeling guilty that i might be eating/using an animal biproduct. i stopped brushing my teeth even, because i couldn't afford to buy the "animal friendly" toothpaste but couldn't bring myself to use my regular toothpaste. i started losing weight and couldn't stay awake. i was obsessed in every sense of the word. i was so hard on myself and often i found the guilt overwhelming.

then one day i broke. i was starving, not because i wanted to really, but because i just couldn't eat right. so i ate and ate and ate at a restaurant with some friends. they were amazed. i just gave it up. and i feel better about it now. i'm ovo-lacto when i'm out and about now.i just cannot buy $6 or more toothpaste and that's okay. all i can do is my best, as corny and silly as that may sound, but it's the truth.

it is about finding that peace. i do my best to be aware of the food i eat and the product si use but i strive to not let it take-over who i am.

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Good post, Lenorre. I also don't want to be obsessed with it as far as you did. But I DO want to be vegan (more than food and clothes, like I am now), but not to the point of hunger or ruining my life. I love animals enough to say ENOUGH! But yet, I have to survive. Ok, I'm rambling again. But someone should understand.

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It's also extremely hard to be "in between" vegan and vegetarian. If I tell someone that I'm a strict vegetarian, they still think that I eat dairy--or sometimes even eggs. If I tell people that I'm vegan, it's not really true, because I still eat some things with honey in them and wear some wool. But, when I tell people the exact way that I eat they just say, "Oh, so your vegan". And then I have to explain to them why I'm not vegan. I would imagine for "dietary vegans" it's just as difficult. Argh!  :-\

Yeah, I have this same problem. When people invite me for dinner, they ask what I eat - I'm not strict about small amounts of dairy or egg (for instance, in a pancake) - but I don't want to be served a big slab of cheese for dinner. It's hard to explain it - I usually just tell people "nearly vegan, but relaxed about it"

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I transitioned to vegan overnight. I saw "Earthlings" and that was it for me. I do still have clothing, i.e. purses and shoes, that are leather from my pre-vegan days. I figure, since I already purchased them, the damage has been done. I'll continue to wear them until they're worn out or I have the money to replace them with vegan friendly options.

Otherwise, I no longer purchase any animal products. If I need shoes or a belt, I get vegan friendly alternatives. When I eat out at restaurants (even non-vegan ones) with friends, I order vegan options, i.e. a salad, baked potato, etc.

I, too, have the problem of going to someone's house though. I'm originally from Europe, and good etiquette was drummed into me from an early age. Where I'm from, it's extremely bad manners to mention special diets to the host (unless there is a medical reason). It's always an awkward thing for me, and I never know what to do. I do warn the hosts ahead of time that I'm vegan, but I make sure to tell them that they need not make anything special for me, that I can bring my own instead. Otherwise, I just stick to the veggies or potatoes or rice. Usually, there is always at least one vegan dinner option. It looks odd when I only have that one thing on my plate ... but what can I do?

I'm kind of a recluse, anyway. So, it's rare for me to actually go to someone's home.

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I can see how you don't want the word vegan to be ripped apart, like you said, Janeyboo, and I agree with you to an extent. I am 16, I live with my parents in a houst with 5 other people. All of whom eat meat, milk, cheese, eggs, foods with gelatin, non-vegan sugar and bought a leather couch even though I told them that I was really unhappy with their decision.  I own one pair of leather shoes and some wool yarn from before I went vegan. Now, I make sure shoes are canvas or another material and that I buy yarns made of other materials (my fave is bamboo!!). However, I think that if I were to introduce myself as a vegan and someone were to tell me that I'm not really a vegan because I wash my hands with the same soap as my omni family and it's not veggie friendly, that I would be highly offended.
I think that vegan IS being concious of your choices, it is being able to sleep at night with the choices you have made, and it is informing people (in a respectful and kind way) of the choices you have made so as to educate them and gain their respect for your beliefs. Being vegan to me, is a system of beliefs but everyone expresses those beliefs in a different way.

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i stopped brushing my teeth even, because i couldn't afford to buy the "animal friendly" toothpaste but couldn't bring myself to use my regular toothpaste.

If anyone else has this dilemma, mix baking soda and cinnamon together for a dry toothpaste.  You can put it in a jar or a small squirt bottle and apply it to a wet toothbrush.

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when i was "fully" vegan, i became pretty much mentally ill. i was CONSTANTLY worried and feeling guilty that i might be eating/using an animal biproduct. i stopped brushing my teeth even, because i couldn't afford to buy the "animal friendly" toothpaste but couldn't bring myself to use my regular toothpaste. i started losing weight and couldn't stay awake. i was obsessed in every sense of the word. i was so hard on myself and often i found the guilt overwhelming.

Well, for the record, ALL of us eat products that harm animals. There is no way around that. You eat wheat ... and mice in the fields were minced up by the machine that cuts the wheat. That's true for any grain based food. No one hand cuts it any more ... and small wild critters are bound to get in the way of machines.

So, I agree with you in that being vegan is a conscious way of viewing our choices - knowing what goes in our body, what is in our products, etc. I think people qualify for vegan as long as the "major" things are avoided, i.e. meat, animal by-products, and animal testing. After that, it's just way too hard to keep track of what's happening in that corn field to the mice or bunnies.

I'm not anal about being vegan when I go to someone's home for dinner. I don't eat meat. But, when there is a side of veggies and it has butter in it ... I'm not going to sit there with an empty plate. Or if I'm going out with friends, and everything on the menu has some form of dairy in it (this is rare, but it's happened a few times), I won't refuse to order anything. When I need to use a public restroom, I use the soap in there to wash my hands. I don't carry my vegan soap with me, after all. When I travel to foriegn countries like Indonesia, I pick the most vegan choice available out of all the options. But, it's not always possible to be 100% vegan, 100% of the time. Trying to be is bound to drive anyone batty!

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i stopped brushing my teeth even, because i couldn't afford to buy the "animal friendly" toothpaste but couldn't bring myself to use my regular toothpaste.

If anyone else has this dilemma, mix baking soda and cinnamon together for a dry toothpaste.  You can put it in a jar or a small squirt bottle and apply it to a wet toothbrush.

for real? that can help to keep my pretty little pearlies, pearly? i've heard of it but wasn't sure of it. i'll give it a while. thanks!

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i stopped brushing my teeth even, because i couldn't afford to buy the "animal friendly" toothpaste but couldn't bring myself to use my regular toothpaste.

If anyone else has this dilemma, mix baking soda and cinnamon together for a dry toothpaste.  You can put it in a jar or a small squirt bottle and apply it to a wet toothbrush.

for real? that can help to keep my pretty little pearlies, pearly? i've heard of it but wasn't sure of it. i'll give it a while. thanks!

:) You only need baking soda.  The cinnamon is just for flavor.

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