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Help! My Dad is still trying to convince me that being vegan is unhealthy...

My Dad just sent me this in an email, how should I respond?


Take particular note of essential amino acids where low intake is a health issue; 
http://www.realtime.net/anr/aminoacd.html
Types of protein

Protein plays an essential role in building and repairing your body. But whether it helps a fingernail to grow or heals a sore muscle, for example, depends on the make-up of the protein.

Proteins consist of smaller units called amino acids, which can link together in many combinations to form chains. Some amino acid chains are created by your body, but those called essential amino acids must come from your diet. Although all animal and plant cells contain some protein, the amount and the quality of the protein varies a lot.

High biological value foods contain enough indispensable amino acids for an adult diet and are considered to be good quality protein. Meat, fish and eggs sit in this category.

Low biological value foods don't contain enough indispensable amino acids. Plant foods, such as pulses (dry legumes) , nuts and seeds, are in this group.
Advice for vegans and vegetarians

Some plant foods are low in one kind of amino acid whereas other plant foods are higher in that amino acid. By eating a well balanced diet that contains a variety of foods you can get all the amino acids you require. Previously it was thought that for vegetarians to obtain enough protein different plant foods had to be combined in the same meal in order to balance the amounts of amino acids, known as protein combining. Now it's believed that this isn't necessary and that eating a range of plant foods over the course of a day will provide all the essential amino acids the body needs.

Foods such as eggs, nuts, seeds, beans, pulses, vegetable protein foods and soya products all contain protein. There are also small amounts in grains and dairy products.
Did you know...?

Eggs contain all eight essential amino acids, making them a perfect source of protein. However, you'd have to eat at least eight eggs a day to get all the protein you need. Be sensible; include them as part of a balanced and varied diet.
How much is enough?

Health professionals recommend that protein makes up ten to 15 per cent of your diet. They suggest men eat 55.5g protein a day and women eat 45g. In real terms, eating a moderate amount of protein - in one or two meals every day - should give you all the protein you need.
The need to eat protein every day is worth emphasising, because your body can't store it - you can't stock up on it by bingeing on protein once a week, for example.

Eat organic, pasture-raised, beef and lamb - this will help you avoid residual pesticides, hormones, and antibiotics in conventionally raised cattle. Do you know that the hormones injected in cows to promote rapid weight gain have exactly the same effect on women who eat meats with steroids?…

Fun research=

Dads Misc characterisations; plagiarised

Stuff Veg*ns and Animal Rights Folk Like

* Buttons, patches, stickers and pins declaring their position on topics such as fur, animal testing, eating meat, etc. Quite often worn on either a tote bag or a messenger bag.

* Showering … haha, just kidding. They don't shower as often as their counterparts.

* Arts and crafts.

* Animals - duh. But pets, too. Cats and dogs, but weird ones especially. They might have a bunny that hops freely around their apartment, a chicken roaming their backyard, or a piglet that sleeps with them. All rescued, of course.

* Telling other people what they cooked for dinner last night.

* Fresh, local, natural foods such as fruits and vegetables.

* The color black, hooded sweatshirts, dark-rimmed glasses, and big combat-type boots. Though now there are more and more "lipstick vegans."

* Making new, cooler clothes from old ones.

* Pamphlets.

* Playing the guitar, learning to play the guitar, or at least talking about how they have always wanted to play the guitar.

* Frugality.

* Reading novels … and then telling you which ones you should read.

* Childhood nostalgia: strawberry shortcake, building snowmen, coloring books, cartoons, etc.

* Hummus.

* Meeting other vegetarians.

* Dreadlocks, uneven haircuts, and other self-styled 'dos that require little to no maintenance.

* Traveling. Economcally.

* Indie entertainment - the less popular, low-budget movies, music, and places.

More Dad stuff;

http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsource/pyramids.html

Building a Better Pyramid

If the only goal of the Food Guide Pyramid is to give us the best possible advice for healthy eating, then it should be grounded in the evidence and be independent of business.

Instead of waiting for this to happen, nutrition experts from the Harvard School of Public Health created the Healthy Eating Pyramid. It is based on the best available scientific evidence about the links between diet and health. This new pyramid fixes fundamental flaws in the USDA pyramid and offers sound information to help people make better choices about what to eat.

I personally am not a fan of asymmetrical haircuts (I like symmetry!)

I, for one, find the guitar bit to be deeply offensive. Why would I want to play the guitar - to ruin my fingertips and create callouses? I'd rather play the piano. It's terrible that vegans are generalized this way - why, we might even aspire to play the saxophone!

(end sarcastic rant... but i'm serious about the piano).

I think portions of the list describe the animal activst-type vegans, other parts describe the health nut/potluck vegan. I fit more into the former category - hummus is all right, but I love me some message shirts.

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Protein is one of the most overrated things going in this country.  Most people get way too much and is one of the contributing factors to obesity and overall poor health.  If you eat a balanced diet of vegetables, nuts, legumes, and whole grains, you will get plenty of protein.  Your Dad's argument about the quality of meat protein might have been a valid point 100 years ago but what you put in your body in the process today is downright scary.  Even if you didn't feel empathy for animals, it still would be a disaster to eat that garbage and believe me, I'm speaking from experience.  I can only hope I haven't done too much damage.  If I was your Dad, I would be very proud of you.  Just be yourself.  I know it's annoying but there will always be people who share his thoughts. 

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http://www.eatright.org/ada/files/vegnp.pdf

Send your dad this position paper.  That should persuade him that vegan diets can be healthful.

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Hi! I am in the same boat with my mother, who is 77, and a staunch meat eater, milk drinker, etc.  I am 47 y/o and went vegan right after Thanksgiving last year.  So far I have lost 20 lbs and she thinks I have an eating disorder.  Never mind how clear my skin is and how bright my eyes are  :)

I have decided to just not talk about "it" with her because she is from a generation that will never understand and I am recognizing that it's pointless to try to get her to understand. If the topic comes up, I just casually say, "I know you don't understand, but this is something I feel very strongly about," and that usually shuts down the conversation.

I am so thrilled with the positive changes in my body, skin, eyes, etc., things that are all secondary benefits because my initial intention with this thing was strictly because I love animals!  So the journey has been full of pleasant surprises  :D

One thing I plan on doing in a couple more months is getting my blood work redone, at which point I will bring up the results to my mom. I can't wait because no one can argue with science! When things like cholesterol and blood pressure drop, suddenly the naysayers don't have as much to nay about  :-D

Good luck with your dad!  It may be that you just end up having to agree to disagree.

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find the guitar bit to be deeply offensive. Why would I want to play the guitar - to ruin my fingertips and create callouses?

started classical piano lessons years before i took up guitar and already had little callouses on my fingers ... but by & by, for either instrument, really aren't noticeable.

/threadjack

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I totally agree that its your choice and no matter what people say if you think its important and its somethign you want to do then do it

but i also get how the constant nagging is annoying my family is always sayign hwo im so difficult and all these things and they alsways take pieces of their meat from dinner and stick it right in my face i always get so mad but they dont think its that big of a deal and people at school its even worse there at my school there are three vegitarian me and two other kids who are for religious reason and everyone is always liek well they ahev a reason btu you your just messed up i dont get why people feel the need to comment about my life style choice it doesnt make sense to me i mean especially being in bolivia and going to an american international school i mean you find tons of people who believe do wear and are accostumed to all different kinds of things but i never make fun of their life styles i just don get why people have to try so hard to convince you that your doing something wrong when you think its fine and your okay with it

i guess the best thing to do is ignore them and try to explain how you feel on the topic

rae.

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i'm really sorry you have to deal with such things. it does make you stronger though. always stick up for yourself!

i would be really mad if someone put meat in my face. that would result in them being in physical pain or their food unedible.  >:D

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I don't know your father, so I can't say for certian, but I didn't get the vibe that he is completely against you.  I think that as a parent, he feels he knows what's best for you (I'm not a parent, but I get the impression that parents do sometimes feel this way, and a some point they have to realize that they need to let thier children make their own choices). I think he wants you to be healthy, no matter what your choice is. It's probably hard for him to 'let go' and watch you make your own decisions.

I agree with everyone that it is your own choice, and I see that so many people provided links to some great articles! I think that you will be able to show him that you are serious about 1. your dietary choices and 2. your health.

Good Luck, I am sure that it will all be worked out!

Also, I loved that pyramid, I had to print if off to keep it handy!!  :)

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in regards to the very original post on this thread.  I would reply with something very simple.

"thank you Dad for caring about me enough to provide this information.  Because you cared enough to provide this information for me, I will take the time and attention to read it over and give your advise every consideration.  When all consideration is provided, I will make the decision that I feel is best and most appropriate for me".

You're acknowledging and thanking him for his efforts, as a courtesy for his efforts - you agree to review the material he provided while at the same time stating - that when all is said and done - it's going to be your decision to make.  There's not much he could argue with after that.

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