I cook two seperate meals. I wasn't Vegan when I got married, and I have always cooked(I've been married 26 years), I cook meat for my husband..he has no desire to become Vegan, and sometimes he will eat what I cook if I add soy crumbles, I don't expect him to give up the lifestyle he has become use to, because I chose to become Vegan...I don't like to cook meat, and sometimes he will grab chicken out somewhere, so I don't have to cook...its a give and take situation in my house, I didn't become Vegan until my boys were already grown and out of the house, so I can't give advice there.

Which I respect, but I really would like to have family meals now that my daughter is getting older (she is 3), and it seems like the only thing that makes us all happy is spaghetti .....

Oh, but there are so many other options!  
- Pizza - with each person having their own section (my boy and I do this)
- Tacos/burritos/etc- everyone choose their fillings
- Stews and soups
- Burgers (you have a veggie burger, and he has whatever he likes)
- ANY other type of pasta with veggies, different types of sauces, whatever!
- Stir fry with the same basic stuff but you do half a batch with tofu and half with whatever he likes, change up the sauces
-Vegan mac and cheese (they might like it!)
- Anything with lots and lots of beans

You can also make all the sides vegan (mashed potatoes, vegetables, grains), and just change up the protein for him.  That's what I do for Thanksgiving.  I make the stuffing, potatoes, green bean casserole, pumpkin pie, etc--all the fixings BUT the turkey (my mom makes that).  My family eats them and loves it.  Also, for example, sometimes when I cook with my sister, I'll make lemon pepper tofu, and she'll make lemon pepper chicken, and the rest is the same.

I know there is more for you all than spaghetti!  I'm sure other people have more/better ideas too.  There are lots of threads about this topic as well.  Here, I'll go find them.

My husband is vegan, but we lived with my parents, who aren't, and I cooked for everybody and so did my mom. We're going over there for dinner tomorrow. She's making buffalo stew for them, and seitan stew for us. So, she'll just cook the stew, brown the meat and seitan separately, and heat together on two different pots. We do this w/ lots of stuff, like: oven fried chicken/tofu, green chile stew, posole, burgers, tacos, pasta salad, stroganoff, etc. Then, there are things everyone will eat. Yes, pasta, but all different kinds. Lasagna, sesame noodles, a ton. Everyone likes stirfry w/ a good sauce, and I think most everyone likes peanut sauce over rice and veggies. Good substantial salads, roasted veggie dishes, soups...

My husband is not vegan. He will try almost anything I cook, but I try to only make meals that he likes. Maybe once a week I will make chicken for him. He does not each much meat. So, for the most part I try to find vegan meals for dinner that he will eat. He is pretty picky, but likes almost everything I make using the crock pot. Best of luck!

I cook vegan, my fiance eats vegan. I'm not going to be bothered cooking two meals when one involves something I'm ethically opposed to. Sometimes he'll add some cheese (like sprinkle it on pasta) otherwise, he just eats what's served.

my husband is an EXTREMELY picky eater... even when it comes to meat.  basically the only kind of meat he eats these days is ground beef - burgers, spaghetti with meat sauce and meatballs, tacos, and meatball subs.  he won't try anything "ethnic" or "foreign" like thai, indian, ethiopian, or greek and the only chinese dish he'll eat is beef-and-broccoli.  he claims that the spices in indian and thai food smell too floral-y and he's "NOT going to eat something that smells like flowers".  he's a very "plain" food guy.  he'd even rather just have vanilla ice cream over any flavor available.  when it comes to baked goods and sweets, though, ANYTHING is fair game. 

as far as eating together, i do the cooking... but i refuse to cook meat.  if he wants meat, he has to go out to get it.  lunches and dinners were a bit easier when i was just vegetarian (mac'n'cheese, alfredo noodles, cheesy rice dishes, etc.), but it's a bit trickier now that i'm vegan since he refuses to try any of the "cheeze" recipes i've made.  i've come up with maybe ten different dishes that he's hopped on-board with - some things that i never would have imagined him TRYING  let alone liking or requesting -, but he refuses to even try a bite of most things.  for example, he refuses to try any kind of veggie burger (pre-made frozen OR homemade).  he detests "regular" lunch meat/deli slices, so he has no interest in veggie deli slices (i.e. - tofurkey slices) for sandwiches.  and seitan... forget about it!  he warmed up to some things over the years, so perhaps there's hope yet. 

as for kids, we don't have any yet, but i'm currently pregnant.  he agreed with me when we first started seeing each other that we would raise our kid(s) vegetarian... although now i'm insistent on changing that to "vegan".  :)

good luck with everything and welcome to the forums! 

My wife is a non vegan, although she does not eat a lot of meat.. She really has come along way and hopefully she will become more vegetarian in the future and maybe even Vegan! Heres hoping!.. Great Forum BTW.. Hello!

ya that sounds like a lot of work :( i say if they want to eat chicken and meat they can cook it up themselves u shouldn't have to cook up so many different things!