I'll never forget the time I was making love to this girl and at the height of our joined ecstacy, she started screaming incoherently about hyperbolic discounting and reduced-form equations. I had no idea what she was talking about but man, the rush was amazing!  I can't even look at an economics book without being aroused.  ;)

:wow: Seriously? That's absurd!

Or... the girl took absolute advantage of your assets, enacting no barrier to entry because of her high consumer confidence in your exchange controls.

I'll never forget the time I was making love to this girl and at the height of our joined ecstasy, she started screaming incoherently about hyperbolic discounting and reduced-form equations. I had no idea what she was talking about but man, the rush was amazing!  I can't even look at an economics book without being aroused.  ;)

That would probably mess me up. I'd have to stop and say "what"? or at least giggle. :) I want to come up with something crazy to yell in case I'm ever lucky enough to have a sexual encounter again.

I'm studying to be an English teacher so maybe I can say something about prepositions or syntax.

Meegs....spot of tea = cup or pot of tea...just a bit of tea, although that doesn't explain it really

:)>>>  Thanks Shelloid.

heh heh. i like how you think lotus  ;)b

my experiences really depend on who i'm with and how well i know them. the best times i've had are where the following conditions are met:

1) mutual and TOTAL understanding of the terms of the relationship (in an honest way)
2) the other person is sex positive and comfortable with things that are generally accepted as "sexual things"
3) avenues of experimentation/non-sexually normative stuff is done (here, i don't mean really like "highly kinky things" but like, i don't know, if you bit their arm they don't get weird but enjoy it as part of the experiance)

only a couple people have met those conditions. but again, those are my preferences. if i fell like i have to be thinking about how my body is moving or what sounds i'm making then it looses points. it should be very carnal and just exist as it is - what is is - and just take it as that.

but this is all a grain of salt - we all have different experiences and i think i could answer that better (the question at least) if i was more normative in both my gender presentation and in the partners i end up shacking up with.

I like you explanation bp.  I think I've been thinking about this more because I've been watching more porn lately.  ha.  I go in phases.  Anyway, I noticed that I don't like to watch stuff that is really overly contrived and for lack of a better word, "fake."  I mean, I know it's porn and it's probably fake, but it just kinda got me thinking about "things we do during sex." ha.  i think too much.  ::)

heh heh. i like how you think lotus  ;)b

my experiences really depend on who i'm with and how well i know them. the best times i've had are where the following conditions are met:

1) mutual and TOTAL understanding of the terms of the relationship (in an honest way)
2) the other person is sex positive and comfortable with things that are generally accepted as "sexual things"
3) avenues of experimentation/non-sexually normative stuff is done (here, i don't mean really like "highly kinky things" but like, i don't know, if you bit their arm they don't get weird but enjoy it as part of the experiance)

only a couple people have met those conditions. but again, those are my preferences. if i fell like i have to be thinking about how my body is moving or what sounds i'm making then it looses points. it should be very carnal and just exist as it is - what is is - and just take it as that.

but this is all a grain of salt - we all have different experiences and i think i could answer that better (the question at least) if i was more normative in both my gender presentation and in the partners i end up shacking up with.

I think this might be why I'm an SA, rather than an NSA.  Things I think of as normal, others have thought of as solidly in the #3 group.  Negotiating that takes trust built on knowing a person.  (In addition to the other reasons I'm an SA.)

I don't understand why being more normative in your gender presentation or your partners would change your experiences.  The packaging might be different for people, but what it covers is a vagina, a penis, or both.  Anatomically, there really aren't that many options.

Is all the sexy econ talk over?!

It was all based on a lie.

I say don't go, but you just went. Sooooo....

mdv- how about you and another gf go up to the bar he works at and talk to him there. then you have your friend with you as a back up support so that you dont end up staying... and it would definitely give him the hint that youre not interested in hooking up- youre just there to hang out with your friend and chat with him when he has a moment.  and don't forget to tell your gf about your moratorium so that she knows not to leave early.