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Pro-choice and veg*n?

Hello VegWeb, it's been a while. I was reminded to log in the other day when I got into a debate with a friend about abortion. She challenged that as a veg*n I should also be pro-life by default, which led me into a pretty interesting examination of why I agree with these two philosophies.

I personally maintain that legalising abortion allows women to make important decisions regarding their bodies and futures, and brings the numbers of those seeking dangerous backstreet abortions down. In those countries which legalise abortion, such as my native England, I consider it a right of women in need, although never a method of birth control. Legal limits for abortion exist for a reason; if it isn't a viable foetus, I don't consider it murder.

As a veg*n, I neither support nor participate in the slaughter or torture of animals because I believe that compassion and right should not be extended only to those who have the ability to ask for them. I couldn't kill an animal (except in absolute, last-chance-to-survive emergency), and if I eat meat that's being done on my behalf.

Looking at the reasoning behind my support for legal abortion and veg*nism, I don't feel hypocritical for my decisions.

What about you, dear VegWebbers? Are you inherently conflicted? Which way does your allegiance lie on this tricky moral question?

Umm, oh yea, I am being quoted incorrectly! That was not my quote. How did that happen???? Thanks, KMK!

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Umm, oh yea, I am being quoted incorrectly! That was not my quote. How did that happen???? Thanks, KMK!

yeah, oops i read that wrong.

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Hmmm.

I wonder why I am the only pro-life person here?

Anyway, I firmly stand by my OPINION that abortion is morolly wrong.  It is murder, plain and simple.  It is not the mothers body, it is also the babies body you are talking about, a living human.  It is not part of the mother's body, but is attached to it.

Yes, I agree, birth control should be FREE to all women, because this would reduce abortions.  And yes I agree, an egg is not a person yet, it has to be fertilized for that to happen so I have no problem with birth control as it stops fertilization, so that is not murder.

But instead of abortion, women should do ADOPTION!  

If you can't support the child for whatever reason, give it up for adoption.  Why is no-one saying anything about adoption?  Babies are so beautiful.  They don't deserve to die. If the mother is too poor, or has other problems, then adoption is the answer not abortion.  

I knew someone who adopted three children, and they had to wait in a long line for months for the chance to adopt a baby, some go outside of this country to adopt babies because it is the only way to get one.  

Since my son was born, I now feel abortion is wrong, he opened my eyes to how beautiful children are, they don't deserve to die, they didn't ask to be conceived by a mother who doesn't want them, why should they die?

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Hmmm.

I wonder why I am the only pro-life person here?

Anyway, I firmly stand by my OPINION that abortion is morolly wrong.  It is murder, plain and simple.  It is not the mothers body, it is also the babies body you are talking about, a living human.  It is not part of the mother's body, but is attached to it.

Yes, I agree, birth control should be FREE to all women, because this would reduce abortions.  And yes I agree, an egg is not a person yet, it has to be fertilized for that to happen so I have no problem with birth control as it stops fertilization, so that is not murder.

But instead of abortion, women should do ADOPTION! 

If you can't support the child for whatever reason, give it up for adoption.  Why is no-one saying anything about adoption?  Babies are so beautiful.  They don't deserve to die. If the mother is too poor, or has other problems, then adoption is the answer not abortion. 

I knew someone who adopted three children, and they had to wait in a long line for months for the chance to adopt a baby, some go outside of this country to adopt babies because it is the only way to get one. 

Since my son was born, I now feel abortion is wrong, he opened my eyes to how beautiful children are, they don't deserve to die, they didn't ask to be conceived by a mother who doesn't want them, why should they die?

I don't like children.

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I don't like children.

LOL Catski, you sound just like  me before my son was born, I hated kids.  My whole life and viewpoint changed when I held him in my arms.  For the first time in my life, I fell in love.

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SnowQueen, you are DEFINITELY not the only pro LIFE person here!

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ive never gotten knocked up or had any accidents...or planned bad ideas so i'm undecided.

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LOL Catski, you sound just like  me before my son was born, I hated kids.  My whole life and viewpoint changed when I held him in my arms.  For the first time in my life, I fell in love.

Okay, but generalising your experience to everybody else is ridiculous. What, we should all go away and get knocked up because motherhood was a life-changing experience for you?

I've outlined all these points before in the thread but sometimes women simply cannot take time off work to give birth. Or there are complications during pregnancy and birth which delay her working. Also, your point about adoption and some families not being able to adopt babies irked me: there are many, many older children in desperate need of homes who are constantly passed over for babies. Rather than give unwanted babies up for adoption to meet some kind of weird supply and demand, how about encouraging couples to adopt older children.

I understand that you struggled with your decision to keep your son and it turned out the best choice for you. But choice is the key to all this. Remember that before you go on a judgemental caps lock rant about how it's MURDER and WRONG and we should all ADOPT. It doesn't matter if it's your OPINION, when you start telling other people which choice to make on an issue as personal as this, you end up sounding like Sarah Palin.

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LOL Catski, you sound just like  me before my son was born, I hated kids.  My whole life and viewpoint changed when I held him in my arms.  For the first time in my life, I fell in love.

ditto catski...

*sigh* if only i were as articulate as you. but im not, so i stick to short, blunt phrases to get my point across.

Okay, but generalising your experience to everybody else is ridiculous. What, we should all go away and get knocked up because motherhood was a life-changing experience for you?

I've outlined all these points before in the thread but sometimes women simply cannot take time off work to give birth. Or there are complications during pregnancy and birth which delay her working. Also, your point about adoption and some families not being able to adopt babies irked me: there are many, many older children in desperate need of homes who are constantly passed over for babies. Rather than give unwanted babies up for adoption to meet some kind of weird supply and demand, how about encouraging couples to adopt older children.

I understand that you struggled with your decision to keep your son and it turned out the best choice for you. But choice is the key to all this. Remember that before you go on a judgemental caps lock rant about how it's MURDER and WRONG and we should all ADOPT. It doesn't matter if it's your OPINION, when you start telling other people which choice to make on an issue as personal as this, you end up sounding like Sarah Palin.

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against abortion?
don't have one!
it's that simple

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She challenged that as a veg*n I should also be pro-life by default 

It is wrong of people to assume that everyone is a veg*n for touchy feely "compassion to animals" reasons.  People can be veg*n for weight loss and health reasons, to resist government subsidies for the meat industry, for economic / self-reliance reasons (you can grow a lot more nutrition per acre w/o passing it through a cow first), etc.  Veg*nism actually reduces the amount of animals on this planet by making their keep less economically sustainable, so hating animals would be perfectly logical reason for veganism too!

As for abortion - it is an issue of self-ownership, pure and simple.  The right to life is a negative right (there's really no such thing as a "positive right", that is a right to steal from others).  The mother owns the body that the fetus depends on, and thus she should be free to "evict" the fetus at any time.  Since there's (currently) no way to "evict" the fetus without killing it, the current abortion practices are perfectly legitimate.  A fetus doesn't have the right to use its mother's body without her consent any more than I have the right to just yank out your kidney without your consent if I happen to need a transplant to save my own life.

Most people who support a government prohibition on abortion do so due to natalist motivations (religious BS can be reinterpreted to justify anything), which are perfectly valid but there are far more effective ways to raise the fertility rates without violating a pregnant woman's right over her own body.

If cannibalism was legal, I'd eat meat.

Consensual cannibalism should be legal (once again, self-ownership), but it boggles my mind how high the human meat prices would be, and any multi-millionaire stupid enough to be outed as a cannibal would face near-universal ostracism and lose his / her millions pretty darn fast as the result

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I like Alex Libman's response.

I haven't been reading the whole thread, but has anyone at all mentioned that SOME PEOPLE AREN'T COMFORTABLE WITH GIVING BIRTH?

I don't hate children. I am uncomfortable around little babies, yeah, but I've worked with kids and met plenty of kids that I thought were adorable. That's not why I don't want kids.
I just don't really feel comfortable with the idea of puking every morning, being practically an invalid for 9 months, and then experiencing the worst pain in the world by pushing a human being out of my genitals. I think that's a pretty reasonable concern, don't you?

I am diligent about birth control and would probably never get pregnant, but since accidents to happen, I would like to have the option of not carrying a fetus to term if that ever happened. If I was pregnant and was told I HAD to have the baby, I would probably want to commit suicide. I'm not joking. I would not be able to emotionally handle something like that.

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Gnarls: thank you. I have a similar aversion to pregnancy and birth. Nobody should feel like they HAVE to endure the trials and uncertainties of a pregnancy because of somebody else's moral structure.

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But what if you lived in a culture without socialist "safety nets", a culture which strongly pressures children to take very good care of their parents financially?  Having a child (or a dozen) just might be the best financial investment you could make!

Fertility rates are very important.  A society that is experiencing an aging and shrinking population is like a parrot with clipped wings - it won't get very far...

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But what if you lived in a culture without socialist "safety nets", a culture which strongly pressures children to take very good care of their parents financially?  Having a child (or a dozen) just might be the best financial investment you could make!

Fertility rates are very important.  A society that is experiencing an aging and shrinking population is like a parrot with clipped wings - it won't get very far...

Firstly, I don't live in that society so it isn't an issue for me.

Secondly, regarding fertility rates, if a woman has an abortion at one point in her life, it certainly doesn't mean she'll never have kids. Actually, I think it's even possible to argue quite convincingly that holding off having a baby earlier when she is less emotionally and financially stable might make her more likely to have a larger family when she is in a position to do so.

I see your point about there being societies in which it is wise to expand one's family to better ensure one's own future, but that often isn't financially viable in the Western world.

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Pro-Choice 100%. I have no conflicting issues with this belief. I am thankful everyday to live in a country where women have rights to their bodies, to work, to vote. This is something, we women have struggled for since the beginning of time, the right to be treated equal. Being forced into having an unwanted child while the father can simply ignore the child is not fair and should not be allowed.

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  regarding fertility rates, if a woman has an abortion at one point in her life, it certainly doesn't mean she'll never have kids. Actually, I think it's even possible to argue quite convincingly that holding off having a baby earlier when she is less emotionally and financially stable might make her more likely to have a larger family when she is in a position to do so.

We are in complete agreement that a woman has a right to decide when to get pregnant and whether to bring any pregnancy to term.  What I (unlike most of my fellow libertarians) am concerned about is whether people have a right to not reproduce at all.  We recognize the absolute necessity of property Rights, because it has been endlessly demonstrated that a society that fails to recognize and defend them to a sufficient degree will never be able to form the complex economy of the modern age, but the same "tragedy of the commons" / "free rider problem" situation can apply to childbirth as well.  A society that averages less than 1 child per woman, which is where all modern secular liberal democracies seem to be headed, is all but doomed to economic collapse!

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  regarding fertility rates, if a woman has an abortion at one point in her life, it certainly doesn't mean she'll never have kids. Actually, I think it's even possible to argue quite convincingly that holding off having a baby earlier when she is less emotionally and financially stable might make her more likely to have a larger family when she is in a position to do so.

We are in complete agreement that a woman has a right to decide when to get pregnant and whether to bring any pregnancy to term.  What I (unlike most of my fellow libertarians) am concerned about is whether people have a right to not reproduce at all.  We recognize the absolute necessity of property Rights, because it has been endlessly demonstrated that a society that fails to recognize and defend them to a sufficient degree will never be able to form the complex economy of the modern age, but the same "tragedy of the commons" / "free rider problem" situation can apply to childbirth as well.  A society that averages less than 1 child per woman, which is where all modern secular liberal democracies seem to be headed, is all but doomed to economic collapse!

No, they don't.  Immigration and improved technology can and does compensate for a smaller youth population.  Many developed countries have dealing with declining birth rates while increasing economic output.

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No, they don't.  Immigration and improved technology can and does compensate for a smaller youth population.  Many developed countries have dealing with declining birth rates while increasing economic output.

I am a big fan of immigration, but it is only a temporary solution as fertility rates continue to decline all over the world.  Economic growth may still continue in a shrinking and aging society, but it is swimming against a very strong current, and that economic growth would have been much greater if population were to experience steady population growth as well.  As the population pyramid continues to invert, you end up with too many old retired people dependent on too few workers: the cost of labor skyrockets, as does the cost of everything that depends on labor, most notably health-care.  This can lead to a negative feedback cycle of economic instability and decline, which could only further discourage young people from spending their valuable time on children, and that nosedive can be very difficult to reverse.

I obviously am not advocating any pro-life / pro-family government policies, in fact I think government interventionism is partially responsible for collapsing fertility rates in the first place.  I am simply encouraging a pro-life / pro-family culture without government force.  This means never making a woman feel that having a large family is less important than joining the workforce and having a successful career.  Mothers of large families should be praised for the contribution they make to society, and I believe that children should do more to provide a return on their investment, so it speak.

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No, they don't.  Immigration and improved technology can and does compensate for a smaller youth population.  Many developed countries have dealing with declining birth rates while increasing economic output.

I am a big fan of immigration, but it is only a temporary solution as fertility rates continue to decline all over the world.  Economic growth may still continue in a shrinking and aging society, but it is swimming against a very strong current, and that economic growth would have been much greater if population were to experience steady population growth as well.  As the population pyramid continues to invert, you end up with too many old retired people dependent on too few workers: the cost of labor skyrockets, as does the cost of everything that depends on labor, most notably health-care.  This can lead to a negative feedback cycle of economic instability and decline, which could only further discourage young people from spending their valuable time on children, and that nosedive can be very difficult to reverse.

I obviously am not advocating any pro-life / pro-family government policies, in fact I think government interventionism is partially responsible for collapsing fertility rates in the first place.  I am simply encouraging a pro-life / pro-family culture without government force.  This means never making a woman feel that having a large family is less important than joining the workforce and having a successful career.  Mothers of large families should be praised for the contribution they make to society, and I believe that children should do more to provide a return on their investment, so it speak.

Fertility rates are not decling EVERYWHERE.  Iran alone has a population that is predominately young.  A 1/3 of their population is under 30.  This why emmigration is so previlent.  There are too many young people in developed countries and not enough work or oppurtunities.  You have to compare the available resources to the population to make a fair assessment of the effects of population change.  BTW, A increase of almost 2 billion people over 5 decades is not an example of population decline. 

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