Dating sucks
So, I met up with this guy I met online. We went out and had some drinks, had good conversation, then went back to his place to watch some TV. We made out quite a bit and all seemed well. He texted me the next morning saying he had fun and hoped I did too, well later on that day I asked him what the verdict is on another date. No reply. Skip to the next afternoon when he tells me he doesn't know how he feels about another date and he's not sure we have that much in common!
Talk about being blindsided! He kept giving bullshit excuses why he doesn't want to see me, while at the same time saying he had a great time! ::) I e-mailed him saying we can hangout if ever feels like it with no pressure or drama. I guess I shouldn't be giving him another shot especially since he doesn't seem to want one, but it went so well and I don't know what I did to make him never want to see or talk to me again!
70% have herpes?!?!?! holy herpes!
back on the dating thing.... i have guys randomly ask me what my husband does for a living, or other questions to see if i have a significant other. I now am pretty quick to respond with random answers. i should figure out a kick ass job that my "husband" does though... *trying to think...*
cia agent. scuba diver. stunt double for brad pit. backstreet boy (i had to. haha). santa claus. i'll think of more
Cold sores on your mouth = herpes. Don't go down on someone if you have a cold sore, use protection and you should be good. Oh and also if you or the other person has a cold sore, no licking your fingers and touching...places.
You sure it's herpes and not HPV?
i think an std in general
So, I was talking to a co-worker yesterday who is going through a divorce and we couldn't think of any places to meet a guy in real life. Not going to any bars or clubs, I never see men my age at the library, hardly see any men at all at the stores I go to. How did people used to date before the internet? Maybe I'm picky, because the guys who talk to me are usually older and not really attractive. Or that means I look old and ugly and I'm attracting the same. Or only the brave guys come up to me. Whatever ::)
so the guy i liked just sent me this text: "To be honest, I don't think its going to work. I think you are a cool chick but the distance isn't going to work for us"... His loss LAME :/
ledzepfan- you're definitely not old and ugly. guys just don't think they have a chance with you so they don't try.
amy- wtf? what a dick. for real, totally his loss.
so the guy i liked just sent me this text: "To be honest, I don't think its going to work. I think you are a cool chick but the distance isn't going to work for us"... His loss LAME :/
OMG! An hour and a half is NOT significant distance. What a douche!
Wow, an hour and a half is significant to him? Who does he date, people in the same house that he lives in? Another state is significant distance and some people can even do it then. If you don't like someone then just be honest, when you lie like that you just look like a dumbass.
well here in cali over an hour seems like forever cause everyone is in such a freakin hurry! i even thought the same thing about the distance but i was willing to get to know him more to see if it was worth it... oh well, talking to a few other guys who live close/ closer, we shall see what happens, i think i moved a little too fast with this last guy :/ need to be more cautious next time
I got the mental picture of kissing with a dental dam...
I got the mental picture of kissing with a dental dam...
hopefully an unused one.
But yeah a few weeks ago I put an ad on Craigslist and I was pretty specific about myself and no so much my preference and got an overwhelming response. It was basically an exercise in futility. Some people also suggested PlentyOfFish, but I'm highly skeptical of that also.
I just want to find a nice (attractive) guy who is not a dick who actually wants a relationship, not a hookup. Blah
Amy - Sounds like the whole "I'll put it on you because I don't want to take the blame" routine. Lame. It's interesting you mentioned how California people work. I've noticed the difference compared to other areas of the country as well. As well as other regions. You'll get your Prince Charming one day.
ledzepfan12 - Don't sweat it. I've told Amy this - Enjoy you, focus on you, be confident in you and someone will be attracted to that. Use this time to find out how you tick..inside and out. Your man will come.
met another guy... he was really respectful and sweet but a lot cuter in his photos... i think i'll meet him once more and see if we hit it off more than friends... he loved my food and even asked if he could take some to go when he was leaving :)
met another guy... he was really respectful and sweet but a lot cuter in his photos... i think i'll meet him once more and see if we hit it off more than friends... he loved my food and even asked if he could take some to go when he was leaving :)
even if you two don't hit it off romanticaly on the next one, you'll never get rid of him.... you fed him and he loved it!! good luck! :)
So I'm talking to a guy. He's in the navy and coming home to visit for the holidays. Seems like nice enough guy and he says he's up for meeting while he's here. Really hope it goes well. Keeps asking for more pictures though.
how'd you meet him? be careful!
A Craigslist ad :-\. No weirdo vibes have been felt yet, and we are definitely meeting in public. Really want to talk on the phone with him. I'll bring it up when he texts me again and analyze his reaction.
If talking on the phone is important to you, tell him and talk on the phone. It's okay (and encouraged) to stand up for yourself and your wants.
i hope everything goes well! but be careful, you never know.
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