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So, I met up with this guy I met online. We went out and had some drinks, had good conversation, then went back to his place to watch some TV. We made out quite a bit and all seemed well. He texted me the next morning saying he had fun and hoped I did too, well later on that day I asked him what the verdict is on another date. No reply.  Skip to the next afternoon when he tells me he doesn't know how he feels about another date and he's not sure we have that much in common!

Talk about  being blindsided! He kept giving bullshit excuses why he doesn't want to see me, while at the same time saying he had a great time! ::) I e-mailed him saying we can hangout if ever feels like it with no pressure or drama. I guess I shouldn't be giving him another shot especially since he doesn't seem to want one, but it went so well and I don't know what I did to make him never want to see or talk to me again!

some guy did that to me! well kinda, i've never dated him. he actually dated my sisters best friend FOREVER. then out of the blue he texted me just asking how i was and such. then he said he's gonna send me a picture of a tattoo he wants to get...he sent me a picture of his dick. then he told me to look at it and tell him if it was big. i said no and told him i wouldnt know since im a virgin and he sent me another one telling me just to take a peak! wtf!!!!!! he's so gross.

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Omg, Eric and VH, where do you find these people?? They sound nuts!

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i really dont know. there are some fucking psychos out there

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Did you tell him how lame it was for him to have to ask someone if it's big or not? Hahaha!

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haha no, i just wanted him to stop texting me

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some guy did that to me! well kinda, i've never dated him. he actually dated my sisters best friend FOREVER. then out of the blue he texted me just asking how i was and such. then he said he's gonna send me a picture of a tattoo he wants to get...he sent me a picture of his dick. then he told me to look at it and tell him if it was big. i said no and told him i wouldnt know since im a virgin and he sent me another one telling me just to take a peak! wtf!!!!!! he's so gross.

Weird. I would show those texts to your sister AND her friend.

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i showed them to my sister, i should show them to her friend! and we'd all laugh and talk about how pathetic that is

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VH - I got nothin'. That's just weird.

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Lets make a list of where to meet half way decent people that arent going to send naked pics right off the bat...

I would think the health food store would be a good one, but most here in the nyc area are grumpy while food shopping.
I head to a classic film theater, definitely smart cute girls.. but striking up a conversation has got me stumped.

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some guy did that to me! well kinda, i've never dated him. he actually dated my sisters best friend FOREVER. then out of the blue he texted me just asking how i was and such. then he said he's gonna send me a picture of a tattoo he wants to get...he sent me a picture of his dick. then he told me to look at it and tell him if it was big. i said no and told him i wouldnt know since im a virgin and he sent me another one telling me just to take a peak! wtf!!!!!! he's so gross.

HAHAHAHAHA, this is so awesome.

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met the guy again... we really hit it off :) he seems normal and has his life together but lives like 1.5 hours away... fingers crossed i found a good guy <3 still gonna be single for awhile though to deal with myself first before jumping into anything :/

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Sounds like a good idea, Amy. Good luck!

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met the guy again... we really hit it off :) he seems normal and has his life together but lives like 1.5 hours away... fingers crossed i found a good guy <3 still gonna be single for awhile though to deal with myself first before jumping into anything :/

Hey good luck. And yes, you first, then a guy. Actually one  should always put their well being before anyone or anything.

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good luck amy!

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Lets make a list of where to meet half way decent people that arent going to send naked pics right off the bat...

I would think the health food store would be a good one, but most here in the nyc area are grumpy while food shopping.
I head to a classic film theater, definitely smart cute girls.. but striking up a conversation has got me stumped.

About 4 years ago I met a guy who worked at Whole Foods and I thought he might be worthy of my time since we seemed to have similar ideals, but he turned out to be a womanizer with herpes....and no, I didn't find out the hard way, thank Goddess, he actually told me.  That was the last date I had.

What about bookstores?  At least you'd know they can read!

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What about bookstores?  At least you'd know they can read!

As long as you check out what they're reading. If it's something like How To Train A Guy In Less Than One Week, I'd keep moving on. Oh and if they're reading lesbian erotica just keeping walking.

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Lets make a list of where to meet half way decent people that arent going to send naked pics right off the bat...

I would think the health food store would be a good one, but most here in the nyc area are grumpy while food shopping.
I head to a classic film theater, definitely smart cute girls.. but striking up a conversation has got me stumped.

About 4 years ago I met a guy who worked at Whole Foods and I thought he might be worthy of my time since we seemed to have similar ideals, but he turned out to be a womanizer with herpes....and no, I didn't find out the hard way, thank Goddess, he actually told me.  That was the last date I had.

What about bookstores?  At least you'd know they can read!

My gynecologist told me last week that 70% of people have herpes so you should just assume everyone does! You're lucky he told you, most guys have no clue and keep spreading the crap... Use a condom always!

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You sure it's herpes and not HPV?

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My gynecologist told me last week that 70% of people have herpes...

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Yowza!  So happy to be in the 30%...and planning to stay there!

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