I feel so bummed
Well as though I was not already overwhelmed, I'm still battling awful stomach pain that no doctor seems to be worried about, two periods a month, and I caught a cold yesterday. I was supposed to follow up on identity theft protection for myself today but I could barely process anything. My mind and body just feels awful and rundown. I have not wanted to eat anything, so I've been drinking liquids the past couple days mainly. Ooo, and a few cookies.
And to put the icing on the cake---I have been dumped by my boyfriend of almost three years. It would have been three years in a couple weeks. It's really hard to feel motivated to start school at the end of this month. Everything is just very surreal, maybe it's the Benadryl exaggerating this as well. My ex-boyfriend's car was stolen a few days ago, inside it was something special I had sewn for him when I realized I had fallen in love. Funny how it disappeared around the time I realized something was drastically wrong with us. Blah.
That S-U-C-K-S!!
I don't know what else to say!
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Ahhhhh, bean, I'm so sorry. Somehow bad things always seem to hit at once. Take good care of yourself. Comfort food and a few treats (but not too many ;) ) Things will look better when you feel a little better. Maybe starting school will keep you so busy you will feel better before you realize it. And who knows, perhaps your new special person is at school "waiting for you to arrive." Feel better soon.
(((((((((((((((((Hugs for Bean!!!!!!!!!!))))))))))))))))
I agree with Bookmama. You need to take care of yourself. Things will get better...eventually. What's up with your stomach? I wonder if it could be anxiety withall that you've been going through...hmm :-\
I'm sorry to hear that. Make sure there's nothing wrong with your stomach like gynecological stuff or gastrointestinal stuff. Tell your doctor to make sure of that. You don't have an ulcer do you?
As for your boyfriend it's hard going through a breakup. But also remember one thing when one door closes another opens.
you will be fine. all of us crazy vegans are here for you... :)
(((((((((((((((((Bean)))))))))))))))))))))
I'm so sorry :'( I'd offer to run him over with my car, but that wouldn't be very vegan of me, would it? Hang in there, sweetie!!
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I'm so sorry :'( I'd offer to run him over with my car, but that wouldn't be very vegan of me, would it? Hang in there, sweetie!!
As long as you don't eat him afterwards.... ::) ::)
When in times of strife, there is one phrase that instantly cheers me up:
"At least I don't have leprosy."
Seriously, though I'm sorry about your rough patch. Just think of it as accumulating good karma. After all, it all has to balance out somewhere along the line, right?
Be well.
(((((((((((((Bean)))))))))))))))))
Total hugs to you! I dated a guy for 5 years and was quite devastated (for lack of better word) when he ended it. I know it sucks. I don't know if you want advice, but if you do...here goes. Surround yourself with great friends, but if you feel like being sad, then be sad. When you want to be alone, I think you should be. I think it's ok to be upset when something upsetting happens. Don't LET yourself me sad all the time though. Balance it with all the little things that make you happy. I know that sounds quaint. But, yeah.
Again, I'm so sorry you're going through all this!
Oh dear, that sucks. (((Bean)))
I'm going to be coming down to visit my brother in early September and we're going to the Chicago Diner... care to join us? I know its a little ways away, but just thought I'd put it out there now.
Wanna come visit the suburbs? There is nothing to do here :)
Aww... it does stink when so much goes wrong at one time. I don't really know what to say about the physical ailments, but as for the guy... I can tell from your profile and posts that you're beautiful, smart, and sweet. Once you've had the time to get over him, you'll find someone better in a heartbeat. Feel better soon! :-*
Thanks all. It does feel devastating and we are trying to work past issues so that we can always be there for one another. He showed up at my house not long after I wrote the message to bring me food (which I couldn't eat) but it was nice. We just laid in my bed quietly. I will be alright though. I just need to kick this cold---it's icing on the cake to have a chapped nose from sneezing and runny nosing all day.
Meggs let me know when you're coming to Chicago, I'd love to go with you. If I had a car I'd shed some mercy and visit you in the suburbs :) I remember 'the suburbs' all too well. About the only thing I remember doing out there was eating and shopping to keep sane.
(((((((((beanthai)))))))))
lots of positive wishes headed your way
Aww, I'm sorry. :( That's no good! ((((beanthai))))
Would cupcakes make you feel better (when the stomach's a bit settled)? Because I can be there on the double with cupcakes. Just say the word!
sorry BT, hope things start to pick up for ya soon
meggs beat me to it - if you ever want to meet up and talk let me know! i just got out of a 5 and half year relationship so i'm sure i can identify with some of what you're going thru. let me know!
*hugs*
Heya Bean, my thoughts are with you. You seem like a generally positive, happy person, so you'll be able to get through this ok, and may even learn some important stuff from it! I'm sure I speak for other vegwebbers as well when I say, "We love you!"
Poor, poor Bean!! I tried to "insert image" but I don't know how. But know we're with you. If he has the lack of taste to leave you, he doesn't deserve you. Most definitely uncool.
But there is a space now in your life for someone wonderful. I know it doesn't feel like that now, but you will grow and learn from this.
((((BEANTHAI))))
awwww what a total bummer Bean! :-\ Stress can do nasty things to our bodies so I suggest trying meditation, yoga, deep breathing, etc. Even taking a walk in the park will help. I'm sending positive healing vibes your way and I hope you're soon feeling back to normal. In the meantime, be gentle with yourself! ((((((Bean)))))
About the only thing I remember doing out there was eating and shopping to keep sane.
That's all there is to do!
About a year and a half ago, I ended a six-ish year relationship. Bleh. Icky and more bleh. You'll make it- you're too hot for him anyway, ok? Let's find you a nice vegan boy?
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