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how do you answer when people ask, "CAN you eat cheese?"

i get so irritated when people ask me crap like this... i always answer... "i can eat whatever i want.  i chose not to."

is that nit-picking?

it really bothers me.

My dad used to alway ask me "can you eat X?" and I too would answer "I can, I just choose not to." Now he always says something like "read the ingredients on this, do you choose to eat it?" He says it in a kind of tongue-in-cheek way but I think it's funny. :) Love my dad.

Heh heh.  Yeah, my sister sometimes stops herself now when she starts asking if I "can" eat this or that.  Love my sister.  :)

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I just say something flippant like 'no, I'd burst into flames on contact,' or 'no, it'd cause a malfunction in the matrix.'

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I just say something flippant like 'no, I'd burst into flames on contact,' or 'no, it'd cause a malfunction in the matrix.'

hope you don't mind, but I'm totally stealing this response!

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"Yes, as long as it is made without the secretions of animal extortion." Usually shuts people right up.

I punch them in the nose as hard as I can

I think I will adopt your answer, except I am going to aim quite a bit lower with my male friends.

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I'm another one who usually goes with some variation of "I can, but I choose not to."   In fact, I've said that phrase so often around my nephew and niece, who are 10 and 8, that now if their mother or someone asks if I can have some non-vegan food, one of them nearly always pipes up with "She can, she just chooses not to."   :)

Too cute! Kids GET IT! It's the adults that get confused.

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people are usually ungodly curious.  i'm from wisconsin, so the the cheese question usually gets people going.  i tend to to use a response that i bummed from my friend mike, who always said when people asked him why he was vegan, "i just like it."
like, "hey, i'm just eating the foods i like to eat." hard to argue with that, and  it's usually the best way to avoid conflict. i really only use ideologically divisive responses if i can sense the person is picking a fight.  then the gloves come off.

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