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Marriage and dating..

I was just curious, how many people are married or dating a Vegan/Vegetarian/Carnivore?
And what's it like?
I've never really been with a meat-eater, but I don't think it would effect much.
Love is love, I think.

I feel like people sleep, work, eat, take care of kids. repeat.
It seems like you have no time to love the person you're in love with, aside from the 3 hours you get at night.
I feel like most of a person's free time is dedicated to the kids and work.
I'd rather be selfish and keep the person I'm in love with all to myself.

I see. Well, I'm not trying to prove you wrong, but I know that I love my husband wholeheartedly 24 hours a day (a brain is still working with sleep, so I assume it's still loving). I don't stop loving him when I'm having to do other things. I assume that I will love my children quite differently than I love my husband. I will love when I'm able to dedicate time to kids! Not for everyone, I understand, but I don't think having kids and loving them takes away spousal love, for most people.

I really meant in spending time with them.
I just feel that with all the divorce rates and whatnot, something is wrong and I don't want to be one of those statistics.
I'd rather be happy without it.

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Divorce rates aren't necessarily an indicator of a flaw in marriage.  There an indicator of a flaw in the way people handle relationships.  Just because you don't get married doesn't mean dysfunctional relationships won't happen.

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She arrived and is set up in the other room. We get along great, joking, talking but there is no flirting. Or well I happen not to see any. She's really fun but I dont have any signals to go off of..

How did today go?  Any signals?

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She arrived and is set up in the other room. We get along great, joking, talking but there is no flirting. Or well I happen not to see any. She's really fun but I dont have any signals to go off of..

How did today go?  Any signals?

Yep no go signals, she's apparently entangled with two indy hipster boys in two different bands. The two bands were at Daddys bar the other night and a fight broke out between the two douchbags. Unable to control their emotions and simple lushes.
I need to find a decent woman not looking for the drama.  I'll be friends with her.

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It sucks that the people who are attracted to drama are usually the most exciting people to be around, but no sane person would want to have that level of drama in a relationship.  Damn catch 22.

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It sucks that the people who are attracted to drama are usually the most exciting people to be around, but no sane person would want to have that level of drama in a relationship.  Damn catch 22.

I don't find drama to be all that exciting.  Then again, I enjoy learning,  experiencing new things, and adrenaline rushes - those are exciting to me.  I avoid dysfunction.

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I don't find drama to be all that exciting.  Then again, I enjoy learning,  experiencing new things, and adrenaline rushes - those are exciting to me.  I avoid dysfunction.

That's what YOU think!  >:D

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I don't find drama to be all that exciting.  Then again, I enjoy learning,  experiencing new things, and adrenaline rushes - those are exciting to me.  I avoid dysfunction.

That's what YOU think!  >:D

haha.

Well life is what one makes and reacts to it. I am sort of further along than drinking and making poor choices. I think I would rather avoid it all together. I'm content, having good times and life experiences outside the bar.

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