i know this is way off topic... but i don't know where else to go
Posted by itsybitsykristy on Dec 09, 2008 · Member since Sep 2008 · 155 posts
i just found out this morning that my husband of 2 years has been cheating on me. ... with multiple women at that. i left the house at noon and have been driving since then. it's now 8pm and i finally stopped at a motel. i'm alone, upset and scared. how could he do this to me? :'(
oh, Kristy...
holy shit. I wish there was something I could say to help! I want to be proactive and give You some kind of advice or words of wisdom, but I'm at a complete loss. What You're going through is....well, really unfair...to say the least, and You deserve lots of love and support.
I'm happy that You can turn to Us here to vent, and I hope that it does help You...and hopefully, the divorce lawyer/whoever You call tomorrow will help You on Your way to reclaiming what You're entitled to. I'm glad You're going back home, too.
and again, vent away here...We're here for You.
((HUGS))
This is what I wanted to say.
I hope you can find your way, very soon. Know that you are strong enough to do anything!
kinda saddens me that now, 5 years later i've found myself in a very similar situation.
and what the hell is with the bad weather each time i leave???
Don't be sad--you closed a door and not only did a window open, but the whole damn world has let out its shutters for you!!! Think about it--you are not tied to this man, or home or place anymore--you can go where YOU want to, do what YOU want to do, be who YOU want to be!!! You get to be in control now--and while that can be scary--think of how exciting it will be!!
And I bet the bad weather is a symbolism of these douch bags future--not yours!
((((((HUGS))))))) and XOXOXOLOVEXOXOXOX
:)>>>
... Be proud of yourself...it takes more guts to walk away than it does to stay. :bear2:
oh yeah, and I'd like to add my sentiments about this, too:
You are definitely handling this pretty well, from the sounds of it. Not only did You make the necessary-but-difficult choice to leave, but You're already planning on how to get back on Your feet, which will (probably) not be easy. You're damn near going about this all on Your own, too, so don't be afraid to ask for help!
I do so admire Your strength, babe.
Yeah! You can do whatever you want. You can be you! Stick with this philosophy. :-*
hahaha - yeah - throw the socks on the floor!
kinda saddens me that now, 5 years later i've found myself in a very similar situation.
and what the hell is with the bad weather each time i leave???
You know what they say- third time's a charm! Keep your head up and don't let that asswipe get the best of you. You deserve waaaay better. Sending big hugs your way!
carrot wench- can you throw some squiggly pens or crookneck squash IBK's way so she won't be so lonely in that motel room tonight? :D
PS- IBK, I hope your mom & bro are doing well.
aaaaaaaaaw wish i could give you all a big SQUISHY hug!!! :)>>> I'm so happy I have you guys. dunno what I'd do without vegweb.
and you're right, i can do whatever i want now. i'm smart, it won't take me long to get a new job. i am actually kinda getting excited about it now, maybe now i can actually finish school! :)
and i can throw my socks on the floor if i wanna!!! *throws socks on the motel floor*
Yes! That's so important. Do WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT. That's all that matters right now/in life.
I'm so glad you're sharing with us. I've been thinking a lot about how everything happens for a reason (I was thinking about it in the car today!) and how true that is. See, you will see your family for Christmas, and whatever happens from now on will be the right/better path for your life. Promise.
k goodnight!
:-*
i'm so glad you got out of there. what a dick! i hope you feel free. you deserve it after this. : ) bagh!!
Sounds like you're definitely better off without him. Congrats and good luck. ;)b
Also, not to bring you down again, but you should probably get tested for STDs.
i will... though we haven't had sex in prolly 6 months.
Well the TMI and orgasm threads have taught us ways to do without that ;)
I hope everything works out for you! Just make sure not to go back to him, you are wayyy better than that! And try to get some sleep tonight! Hopefully the bed there is comfy and has big squishy pillows and such, thats always nice!
omg, you have got to be kidding me!!! the wall is shaking and the people next door to me are getting it on!!!
thanks underSARAH, i brought my own pillows!! :) think i'll play around vegweb for a bit before i go to sleep. i'm a bit afraid of how quiet it's gonna be when i shut off my pc.
(or how noisy it's going to be, thanks to my neighbours!!)
(hopefully enough to drown out the neighbors, haha)
I hope tomorrow is a much better day full of new things (good things), that help you get on with a life about you, not that jerk. Have a goodnight!
Maybe you can keep your computer on and play some music? It's not your power bill, after all.
you can just make really loud noises back, like that episode of sex and the city where samantha starts having 'threesomes' with her neighbors through the wall.
my advice is to just dick around online until you can't keep your eyes open. i know i would have a really hard time falling asleep
haha that is such a good idea!!!! ;D
i really should tape this!! lol
they're still at it!
is it just moaning or are they talking dirty?
any bed creaking, wall-bumping, or skin slapping noises?
lol omg!!! i think i'm making more noise now!!
i can't quite hear the skin slapping, there is a lot of loud moaning though. and a definite wall bumping!! my feet are against my head board right now and i can feel it in my toes!!! aaaaaaaaah does that mean technically i'm having sex too?????
you are totally having sex too
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