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I have nursed my son for a month and everything has went really well.  No problems with supply, or latching on, or anything.  All of a sudden, my milk is gone.  I know that the worst thing you can do if your supply is low is supplement with formula.  My son would try nursing for a while, and then get really frustrated.  So I gave him a bottle.  Then, after he was calm, I tried pumping.  All I was able to collect was less than half an ounce.  I've pumped before and got about 2.5 oz.  So what happened?!  And is there anything I can do?  And I've already heard from my husband (half-jokingly) that I need to consume some dairy, so please, please, no jokes about diet.  I do watch what I eat, and am careful to get a variety of (enough) foods.  I know its counter-productive, but I am really beating myself up over this.  So anybody have any suggestions?

Yeah!!

One good thing about formula.. they gain weight faster which means they sleep through the night sooner!! ;D ;D

One thing I remember from my bf challenges.. When the boys were two days old and the pediatrician had just yelled at us and the nurse for not starting formula... the nurse brought us formula and instead of bottles she brought "sippy cups", well not toddler sippy cups, more like medicine cups (the ones you get with dayquil)... so we'd bf and then sit them on our knee, support their little heads and help them drink from a wee cup.  It was amazing they could sip at two days old.  This helped us get bf'ing established before switching to a bottle of formula after each bf at about 3 weeks.  This nurse was our Saviour... if she had brought us bottles I'm sure the boys would have skipped the b00b and gone straight for the bottle.  Something to remember if you're laying stoned in a hospital bed with a newborn and the pediatrician has just read the riot act to you. Ask for sippy cups!!

K^2

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I laughed when I saw you guys mention Flylady!  Flylady rocks!

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No one has mentioned this here, so I thought I would. Some medications dry up milk supply. This is what happened to my mom when she was nursing me - they weren't supportive of nursing back then, or very informed, and the doc gave her a prescription that caused this problem when I was 3 months old. It wasn't until I was an adult, helping my sister with her newborn that I stumbled accross the reason why my mom was unable to nurse me. She had always just thought she was unable. So, if you're on any meds, ask the pharmacist about this possible side-effect.

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i had (have?) milk supply issues and I tried *everything* from pumping round the clock to herbs and foods. nothing really increased my milk until I took motilium (domperidone). its not available legally in the US without a perscription and I hear its difficult to get one. I would check out http://www.asklenore.com for info on that. also, if your baby will take it, formula isnt the end of the world and doesn't make you a bad mom in any way. don't let the world be hard on you for giving your baby formula. stress causes lack of milk too which causes stress. its an grumpy cycle.

anyhow, if you want to commisterate, i'm here for ya!

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Sorry I'm late, but here are two of my two cent thoughts. . .

First, the first time I started breastfeeding, I initially had some difficulty (this baby doesn't know what she's doing!)-and a nurse told me that more than half of the women who start, stop within weeks because it's so strangely difficult (and I had always heard it was natural). For some of us, those first few weeks can be frightening, which leads me to my other two cent thought. . .I had one that got terribly frustrated and I couldn't seem to produce enough for a while--to make things better, my then husband started screaming at me "you're going to kill her! She needs to eat!" --jerk. She's quite well now, I didn't kill her, but I did find that the idea I had about she needs all she can get, let her eat was contributing to the problem. When the baby is constantly taking just an ounce here and an ounce there, the baby is training your body to think that it only needs to produce an ounce at a time. Though it was horrible, I had to make her wait a little, and cry a little (baby cries stimulate milk production), so I could build up a little. Not all at once, just a few extra minutes each feeding until production increased, which it rapidly did.

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sorry, i know i'm late too...but anyway...

i ahve never breast fed as i do not have children but one day would like to. i mentioned this to my mother and she got all weird on me; like sort of upset in a sad way. as it turns out, she made a choice not to nurse believing (knowing?) that her "lifestyle" (she was a heavy smoker and was terribly underweight due to lack of funds for food for herself) would make it hard on both of us. it was her body and so she made the choice to put me on formula. the nurses at the hospital made her life awful while she stayed there and again each time she went back for a checkup. they told her she was stupid for not nursing me and that i would be malnourished and not too swift. it really pains her quite a bit i think...i believe she feels guilty when really, she shouldn't have to as i have turned into a smart, "robust", woman. i know it's been said before but i will say it again, it's okay to use formula. i like that you're sort of going with both breastfeeding and formula, recognizing that sometimes, things don't always go the way you want them to...and that's okay.

good luck and i wish you and your babies all the best  :)

Lenorre

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