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Reasons to Cry Like a Baby

("frown" didn't seem adequate)

I had to put my sweet black dog to sleep yesterday... knew it was coming-- she was 14, & had been treated for lymphoma for the past several months-- but it just never gets any easier. We were friends a long damn time, and I miss her very much. Pics & FB eulogy here: http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.179450365448242.45816.100001498387941.

Many of the 2-legged creatures in my3-D world fail to understand the sadness magnitude of this event... like, "that's too bad, oh well she was old"... then I kick them in the shins/ balls, and go back to bed.

Cyberhugs needed.

That's terrible hcm! I really don't know what to say other than that she was beautiful and was very well taken care of and loved.

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((((((HUGS)))))))  I'm so sorry.  

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I'm so sorry for your loss, hcm.  I know I'll be an absolute wreck when my dog dies (hopefully not for many more years).  I'm sure your beautiful doggy had a good life with you and knew how much you loved her.

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((((hcm))))

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I am sure she knew how much she was cherished and loved.  ((((HUGS))))

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i am sooo sorry ((((HCM))))

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(((HCM))) i haven't had to deal with that yet so i don't completely understand... i've started crying hysterically when my dog was sick and i didn't know why (needed his anal gland popped)... so i cannot even fathom how you are feeling... he will be waiting for you though in heaven <3

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Awwww, jeez, I'm sorry. I have a yellow lab and cried uncontrollably when I watched "Marley and Me". I can't watch the end of that movie anymore.

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(((HCM)))

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Thanks you guys...(sniffle) I needed that... made it back to work today without bursting into tears during actual job performance; small victories...

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Sending hugs & positive energy your way!!  I tried to check out your FB link but it said "content currently unavailable".

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big hugs and comforting thoughts for you, hcm, the loss of an animal companion is so so hard, and it really sucks when the humans you have to interact with don't get that...

she was beautiful, and I'm sure she knew how much you loved her...

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She preferred to be with you (while bossing dogs) over anyone else in the world.  You gave her a place to belong and she loved you for it.

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I love you guys a whole lot right now! Thanks for the kindness & understanding... sometimes I need online contact to remind me that 2-leggeds can be awesome too.  :'-)

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I'm so sorry. You need to honor your pal in some way.

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I hope HCM won't mind my borrowing her thread but this seemed to fit here best:
My husband discovered today he has a detaching retina. He goes tomorrow for bloodwork etc and they will give him an appointment for surgery. It means an overnight stay in the hospital and rest until then. We don't know when the appointment will be. Of course...August here means most of the regular doctors are on vacation.
And my pray-er appears to be broken.
I need to put on a strong face for him when all I want is for someone to hold onto me while I cry.

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ohhhhhh yabbit, you guys are in my thoughts, and if it were possible you could cry on my shoulder. i pray for a fast recovery and that he gets in quickly for the surgery.

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TOTALLY appropriate thread usage! So sorry, yabbit... he's lucky to have you, and I'm glad he's not facing this alone. That's a terrible feeling, though, when you feel like crying but have to be 'the rock'... Long showers with the radio up, that's my strategy at such times-- no one can hear you, and your face is SUPPOSE to be wet after a shower, so: TOTALLY unobtrusive cry time!  :-[

HUG! Positive energy is hereby officially sent your way, through cyberspace... I hope the surgery is scheduled quickly, with an easy and swift recovery... Hang on!

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im so sorry hcm and yabbit. <3 hugs!

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