good news i guess.
im pregnant again. i think im about 3 months along (last peroid was the week of thanksgiving). i wont tell my mom until ive decided what to do. im scared that when i tell her she will tell zack (merrick's dad) and he will want to fight for this one also. i dont know if im going to keep it or give it up for adoption yet. im not trying to be down about it but its kinda not the best time right now with the crap zack is giving me. i already know that im going to have a natural birth again (just hope i dont have to go to the same hospital again). ive knowticed that i have more nausea this time around.
I have much empathy to offer you. As a mother. . . Mom's know. . .living with your mother, you won't be able to keep it a secret (if she hasn't already figured it out and is just waiting for you to tell her). Maybe she'll accept that you have apprehension and will not only respect your need for space and time, but she might also help you get a little more of the rest you need. Hope you feel better soon.
I'm not a mom except for furred and feathered but one thing I can tell you is no matter what you decide, you will have my support and the support of most on this board. My sister adopted both of her children so if that is the route you go, know many loving people that can not have kids are out there waiting. Only you can make the decision but we will all be here for you....no matter what!
About the nausea, ginger is great for it. Have you thought about a doula? They can be great advocates and provide what you need while you are in labour. I had a volunteer one, you may want to look into what is available in your area. I hope all goes well for you.
Wow...karone. I'm not a mother, but I can imagine a small fraction of what you may be going through and you have my sympathy. Just take it one day at a time and try to not get too overwhelmed. *HUG*
I'm so sorry to hear about all the chaos in your life right now. I don't mind if you vent here. If there was a hug icon, I would put several in this message. Here are some kisses instead.
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