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A few years later I got a dildo.  An ex of mine bought it for me, actually, which made it really weird.  I used the dildo while he touched me and it was actually pretty hot.  I don't really use it on my own though.

That's interesting that he bought it for you.  Lots of guys would be like, noooo way.  I don't know if I'd like that or not.  I mean, I'd be like, "Ummmmm hi your dick is right there....why not use that instead, dear?"   ??? ;D

like fisting. sweetness.

That's so much.  It scares the crap out of me.  I'd be afraid of hurting myself.  Gahhhhhhhh.   :o

men buying them is actually pretty common.  i used to work at a place that had an adult section & men sheepishly bought them more often than women from what i saw.

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A few years later I got a dildo.  An ex of mine bought it for me, actually, which made it really weird.  I used the dildo while he touched me and it was actually pretty hot.  I don't really use it on my own though.

My ex bought me my first one too.  We were actually already broken up, but were still occasionally sleeping together.  Anyway, one night, he was giving me some personal attention  ^-^ and I noticed something different.  Ha.  Anyway, (similar to algae's experience) it turned out to be pretty hot.  It also turned out to be the last time we slept together (which is apparently why he bought me the vibrator  ::))

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A few years later I got a dildo.  An ex of mine bought it for me, actually, which made it really weird.  I used the dildo while he touched me and it was actually pretty hot.  I don't really use it on my own though.

My ex bought me my first one too.  We were actually already broken up, but were still occasionally sleeping together.  Anyway, one night, he was giving me some personal attention  ^-^ and I noticed something different.  Ha.  Anyway, (similar to algae's experience) it turned out to be pretty hot.  It also turned out to be the last time we slept together (which is apparently why he bought me the vibrator  ::))

Oh yes, we were broken up as well.  We weren't sleeping together though... it was a very weird situation and I won't go into the details...
That was very considerate of him to get you the vibrator since he wouldn't be there anymore! aw! good story.

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A few years later I got a dildo.  An ex of mine bought it for me, actually, which made it really weird.  I used the dildo while he touched me and it was actually pretty hot.  I don't really use it on my own though.

My ex bought me my first one too.  We were actually already broken up, but were still occasionally sleeping together.  Anyway, one night, he was giving me some personal attention  ^-^ and I noticed something different.  Ha.  Anyway, (similar to algae's experience) it turned out to be pretty hot.  It also turned out to be the last time we slept together (which is apparently why he bought me the vibrator  ::))

Oh yes, we were broken up as well.  We weren't sleeping together though... it was a very weird situation and I won't go into the details...
That was very considerate of him to get you the vibrator since he wouldn't be there anymore! aw! good story.

that's so weird to me!  an ex buying that for you?  did he think that's all he was good for in the first place so he felt he'd replace it for you?  i know for a fact none of my exes were thinking of buying me a vibe as a parting gift when we went our separate ways..

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that's all they're ever really good for.

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haha, that is so bizarre.  oh dear.  

i still dont get the vibrator as a gift from a guy in terms of what the guy is thinking.  i guess they just figure its something to make their lady feel good.  but honestly, i wouldnt have the urge to by a man a fleshlight or something!  id be like, here, i already have one of those!  i guess none of the guys ive dated really cared for/about toys.  well, i know GC did (haha, remember GC?  those were the good old days), but i didnt stick around with him long enough to try that.  

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that's all they're ever really good for.

Ooooh, burn!

CK or camillus, come defend yourselves....

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that's all they're ever really good for.

Ooooh, burn!

CK or camillus, come defend yourselves....

haha i'm just being bitter at the moment. I don't really believe it.

haha, that is so bizarre.  oh dear.  

i still dont get the vibrator as a gift from a guy in terms of what the guy is thinking.  i guess they just figure its something to make their lady feel good.  but honestly, i wouldnt have the urge to by a man a fleshlight or something!  id be like, here, i already have one of those!  i guess none of the guys ive dated really cared for/about toys.  well, i know GC did (haha, remember GC?  those were the good old days), but i didnt stick around with him long enough to try that.  

okay okay. so's here's what he was thinking: he wanted pictures!  :-[

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i wouldve directed him to one of the - gee, it's gotta be hundreds! of porno sites all over the internet...

who thinks their ex would be willing to send them dirty pics of themselves post-breakup?  usually that's the time when you're fighting to get the ones you took during the relationship back.  im glad youre not with that guy anymore.  what a nut.

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that's all they're ever really good for.

Ooooh, burn!

CK or camillus, come defend yourselves....

It's nice to be good for something.  ;)b

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that's all they're ever really good for.

Ooooh, burn!

CK or camillus, come defend yourselves....

It's nice to be good for something.  ;)b

LOLZ!

Regarding dudes buying toys for their ladies, I am eventually going to get one for Katie.  I've wanted to get her one for a while, but I seem to be short on cash whenever I think about it.  Maybe I will get her one for christmas and let her open it in front of everybody... :-D ::)

The reason I want to get her one is because I know it would feel good.  I'm not opposed to using it during sweet loving and / or oral sex and I'm not insecure and won't worry about a toy outperforming me or anything.  I just know that it will be a different thing altogether.  That, or I'm just a cool dude.

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i wouldve directed him to one of the - gee, it's gotta be hundreds! of porno sites all over the internet...

Ha!  ;D

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ck, you're already a cool dude.  That just seals it.  Confidence is sexy.

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Regarding dudes buying toys for their ladies, I am eventually going to get one for Katie.  I've wanted to get her one for a while, but I seem to be short on cash whenever I think about it.  Maybe I will get her one for christmas and let her open it in front of everybody... :-D ::)

The reason I want to get her one is because I know it would feel good.  I'm not opposed to using it during sweet loving and / or oral sex and I'm not insecure and won't worry about a toy outperforming me or anything.  I just know that it will be a different thing altogether.  That, or I'm just a cool dude.

Same.

I've never bought toys for a partner, but I plan to when I have one to buy for... it just seems like fun.  Wait, that was quite intuitive of me, "toys seem like fun."

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Mine were bought by my boyfriend at the time. It was before we had even had sex too. haha. I think a week later he came up to me like, "do i have to take those from you? Because i do have something similar that doesnt require batteries" Hah. He would have times where he would take them or threaten to. silly boy.

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i've had partners i've used them with and one's that i don't. i don't really think it matters to me as long as the reason for not using them is lazy/don't have them/don't think about it vs. them being opposed to it.

that being said, i've had both m and f partners who like toys for different things. i think it is really just having different ways of enjoying each other's bodies and new feelings vs it being an issue of inadequacy or whatnot. i also see it as a nice violation of heteronormativity, so i'm all up for that.

hh, i will try the thumping next time i have a woman around that i can turn into an orgasmic mess. well, i do have one i could do that to. humm. seems strange to talk about it here since cammer's knows who i'm seeing. heh heh. maybe that just makes me feel extra dirty.  >:D

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I now have a new nickname for BP's friend!  Thumpy!
Figure out if it works for tonight!  :jamming:

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I now have a new nickname for BP's friend!  Thumpy!
Figure out if it works for tonight!   :jamming:

Or Thumper...then she could get "twitterpated".
:D >:D :P

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don't you even cammers. or i will tell every person you ever even think of dating in the future all the dirt i have on you.

(not that there is a lot, but i'm sure me and the catz can think of something)

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No worries, even I'm not that awkward... besides, telling my dirty little secrets may inadvertantly help me.  :P

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