haha yabbit what are you doing on this thread?! lol
I use this one:
It's Gigi by Lelo. It's a g-spot vibe. I'll be damned if I'm gonna tire out my fingers and my arms every time I want a g-spot orgasm. It's good for clitoral orgasms but I rarely use it for that. Of course, if I had to choose between the vibrator and the real thing, I'd choose the real thing.
I've never used a toy during sex but I wouldn't be opposed. I kind of don't feel like it's necessary.
I've heard from several people that the fleshlight is supposed to be good. You can even get them in the shape of your favorite porn star's vaginas! Imagine having your vagina immortalized forever in baby pink superskin! ;D
Now you know why I haven't posted on the "5 Things People Don't Know About Me" thread. It's just better for all concerned to keep y'all in the dark. I must gather the remaining shreds of my cred about me against the night.
But after 26 yrs of marriage, in which only in the last 2 have certain activities petered out (to coin a phrase), and that because one of us is of retirement age and in ill health...I happen to be an authority on the mattress mambo. Trust me.
(Mattress Mambo: the horizontal hundred yard dash. The beast with two backs, if you're not very imaginative. The Lambada. What your right arm's for.)
Ok, I think I'm done here. :-D
KMK- I wanted that one!!! Arent those expensive?
I have two. haha. But my waterproof one has been dropped and cracked and lost its waterproofness, and only certain speeds work. And the other is just basic and extremely loud. I want to retire these and get a new one. haha
I wish i drove so i could get a new one, i dont know if my ex (who takes me places) would be a big fan of going with me to a sex store, haha.
And yeah, fleshlights, and sleeves and things, just freak me out a bit. My ex had like a cheap version of one. idk why but they just freak me out for some reason, ew. haha.
The real question is, if you're willing to own a Fleshlight ... are you willing to own a Real Doll?
BE AWARE THAT THE LINK IS FOR 18+ ONLY.
ok I had never heard of the fleshlight and just had to google. Interesting - the advert I saw had a guy fucking a girl with another girl holding the fleshlight next to them.
I'm sure that's not the point of the fleshlight.
I have never used a vibrator. I can't believe that I've got to nearly 30 years of age and have not used one. And I'm sure you're only 18 sarah - what a sheltered life I lead!
I hadn't heard of fleshlights before. They look really cool. And they look relatively easy to clean.
Simply rinse your removeable Fleshlight sleeve with warm water from your sink and allow time for it to dry before storing. Do NOT use soap to clean your Real Feel Superskin sleeve. For tough cleaning, we suggest using a little isopropyl alcohol. To maintain that soft feel, sprinkle a liberal amount of corn starch on the sleeve and shake off the excess powder.
yabbit, ;)b . Just ;)b . :)
I don't feel like a vibrator is necessarily part of one's lifestyle ... but it sure is nice to have absolute control over where, when, and how I have my orgasms. Nothing else, including manual stimulation, has been as reliable as the ol' Water Dancer.
Downside: a vibrator will not hold you afterwards and whisper how gorgeous you are.
Upside: a vibrator only needs a new battery, and doesn't hog the sheets.
Whaohhh, that real doll thing, is just CREEPY. If a guy owned that and had a girl over, what would he say haha. "Oh thats just my girlfriend, but shes inanimate dont worry."
And yeah, and i got them when i was like, 16? haha, I think i was at least, not sure. My boyfriend at the time got them for me, at first i was kidding around telling him to buy me one, and he actually did! And the other one was free or something. so that worked out nice. haha
I just showed N the fleshlight.......
his first question 'so can you warm it up in the microwave?'
FYI: I am kind of obsessed with Real Dolls. (And the men who love them.) Apparently the company used to make a man-doll, but it was pretty obviously not targeted to female buyers.
There's a great documentary on Real Dolls here:
It's a 5-part series, totally fascinating.
KMK- I wanted that one!!! Arent those expensive?
I ordered mine from she vibe dot com. It was like, $60? $70? It's awesome, I love it. I actually got a free one by accident (shipping error) but I told someone else I'd give it to her already. ;)b
I watched the whole Real Doll documentary once! So interesting/crazy/bizarre.
It's funny, we can talk about toys shaped like fake penises and that seems normal, but a toy shaped like a fake vagina seems weird to many people. Kind of a double standard...
The ad with the guy fucking the fleshlight while there are TWO girls there is so freakin funny. Like, tell me there is a man out there who would take his dick out of a REAL vagina/mouth that was ready and willing, to be jerked off by a fake one. Come on now.
Yeah, and there's different textures you can get for the sleeve. But what I don't get is that for exteriors, there's a vagina, "stealth," and anus, and then they have a separate one for gay men that's basically the anus with mini butt cheeks. Wouldn't a hetero dude who likes anal be down with the butt cheeks too? ???
Wait, to me that one looks like a girl's ass. It has a vagina. Maybe we are looking at different things?
Great, now I am browsing the fleshlight website. Thanks guys. ::)