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The Moratorium Auditorium: In Which We Unite In Shunning Inadequacy

Crossover from the open letters thread!

Represent.

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http://www.dizzy-dee.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/geek-panty-_2.jpg

We need the 403: Forbidden undies!

Wait, is my geek showing?

:-[

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http://www.dizzy-dee.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/geek-panty-_2.jpg

We need the 403: Forbidden undies!

Wait, is my geek showing?

:-[

omg i love these.

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Yes!  :>

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i think ive moved past the being bored so i want to date someone stage - right now im at the 'dating doesnt even sound enjoyable' stage.  i really enjoy not worrying about anybody elses issues but my own!

It wasn't so much dating. I actually don't think I've ever really dated in my life. I just jump pretty much straight into a relationship or just a sexual relationship. I am always up front about the nature of the relationship, though- does that count for something?

yes, honesty counts for something.  the only times ive had things not get really weird was when right off the bat i told the person that i was not looking for a relationship and just not ready for one so don't get too attached.  they appreciated the honesty and we'd continue to hang out and make out - but no sex.  we'd slowly stop hanging out and even when i see them now things are cool with them.

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Can I be an honorary member too? Pretty please?

Actually I probably can't. It's ok, I'll deal with my disappointment somehow:(
But I'll be moral support!  :)>>> you guys

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Meggs - I've tried the 'no strings attached' / 'I won't get weird if you don't get weird' things in the past, but you know what?  SOMEONE ALWAYS GETS WEIRD. 

Yes! And lately, it's ALWAYS the guy! WTF?! I thought "OK, I finally got myself to a place where I can have the 'guy mentality' and make this only sex thing work"... stupid guys throw a wrench in my plans.

*and by 'guy mentality' I mean the norm that society has placed upon men to be the less caring and more interested in only getting a piece and less interested in relationships.

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I guess she can post in this thread.  ;)

Ty!

I find this thread very intriguing. I'm here because I  :)>>>.
I have a rule for KMK. I say she is on a moratorium from NOT spending time on herself, and enjoying things. She is moving into the enjoymatorium auditorium.  ;D

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I think I qualify as an existing member!  I haven't engaged in sexual activity for almost a year and have never felt better.  To be honest, I didn't sit down and establish a specific amount of time...it more less just evolved on it's own.  Have I been tempted? Is my sex drive still the same?  Of course but it's not something I toss and turn in bed about.(no pun intended)  If anything, I've felt a refreshing, inner freedom that's been missing for a long time.  So yes, I am united!  ;)b

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Yes! And lately, it's ALWAYS the guy! WTF?! I thought "OK, I finally got myself to a place where I can have the 'guy mentality' and make this only sex thing work"... stupid guys throw a wrench in my plans.

Yes!  If we're gonna have only sex, then let's have only sex.  No terms of endearment.  No saying you miss me.  No being jealous.  Srsly.  Come on now. 

Enjoymatorium!  Teehee!

AC will be good moral support.  Promise. 

It happens to coincide with this moratorium that I just bought myself a gift from a certain......erotic retailer.  Because transitioning out of real sex isn't something I really relish.  But it can be. 

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YAY DanaJames!

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Because transitioning out of real sex isn't something I really relish.  But it can be. 

First month is the hardest.  Promise.

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Because transitioning out of real sex isn't something I really relish.  But it can be. 

First month is the hardest.  Promise.

Sweet. Smooth sailing from here then? I suppose we shall find out together, huh, MDV? I think we have relatively the same moratorium date. <-- lol

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Because transitioning out of real sex isn't something I really relish.  But it can be. 

First month is the hardest.  Promise.

That's good.  I've really never had a period of time where I had such regular sex.  In the past I've had long distance boyfriends, and prior to that I was a pretty devout Catholic.....This was something nice and different.  Oh well. 

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I too have been consciously engaged in such a moratorium stemming from from a few sexual encounters with an ex girlfriend last summer.  Details will be spared.  

Anyways, since then my rule has been no sex until after you have met them at least 4 times and had an engaging/interesting conversation each time.  Any sexual activity up until then is limited to just her pleasure.  This way if things didn't work out she can't go around saying I used her for sex and there are legitimate issues behind my decision I can explain to her that are non-sleazy.  Thus far, no girl has made it past the third encounter and I am glad these rules are in place because I fear many more mistakes causing me more grief and drama may have ensued.  In addition, I will add that during this period I have learned about my body very well and my masturbation experiences have become absolutely orgasmic as I've tried new things out.  All in all, the moratorium is fantastic!

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I too have been consciously engaged in such a moratorium stemming from from a few sexual encounters with an ex girlfriend last summer.  Details will be spared.  

Anyways, since then my rule has been no sex until after you have met them at least 4 times and had an engaging/interesting conversation each time.  Any sexual activity up until then is limited to just her pleasure.  This way if things didn't work out she can't go around saying I used her for sex and there are legitimate issues behind my decision I can explain to her that are non-sleazy.  Thus far, no girl has made it past the third encounter and I am glad these rules are in place because I fear many more mistakes causing me more grief and drama may have ensued.  In addition, I will add that during this period I have learned about my body very well and my masturbation experiences have become absolutely orgasmic as I've tried new things out.  All in all, the moratorium is fantastic!

You're like my favorite male ever.

I  am going to adopt your rules.  I like those rules.  The four times business and all.

Hooray!  The males are reppin' in the auditorium!

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Seriously Foofie, well done. I tried the 4 meetings before hook up and I think I fudged the numbers...

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Now if you really want to challenge yourself, try going a few weeks without any self-gratification. Talk about brutal!!! ;D

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Now if you really want to challenge yourself, try going a few weeks without any self-gratification. Talk about brutal!!! ;D

Yeah, no thanks.

;D

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Now if you really want to challenge yourself, try going a few weeks without any self-gratification. Talk about brutal!!! ;D

THE CONTEST.  ;D

Seinfeld.

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Maybe we should have a contest!  I guess we'd be testing the limits of the honor system, no? But like on Seinfeld, I WANT ODDS!  >:D

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